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What type will you attract?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by LogicNoSense, Nov 27, 2015.

  1. ZestyLion

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    Probably nobody, but ya know...
     
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    The type who vanished from the face of earth long time ago
     
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    INFJs. I can attract almost any type of person despite my lack of social skills. I think what's more interesting are the people that I attract when I'm just being myself; highly empathic people, high-functioning sociopaths, and people with borderline personality disorder. Of course there can be overlap but you get the picture.
     
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    I've only had three(or two and a half?) passing instances of which people thought I was cute/attractive/had a crush on me/whatever.

    I don't have much to go on since they were very passing and single-day encounters, two of which had no interaction whatsoever, but judging from the three experiences, I guess gamers and/or macho-ish guys?
     
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    I give off a very friendly vibe, so I attract a lot of people? People usually choose me as someone to ask for directions, and if I stand in one place for too long, people will come over to me XD;;; My mother always took me shopping with her because she knew people would offer to help me if I looked confused at all XD;;;;;

    Unfortunately, I usually get creepy old guys hitting on me ;.; A lot of the guys that hit on me are WAY older than me, and it's always been that way... I look really cute and a lot younger than my age, so people think they can take advantage of me easily ;.;

    Conversation when I was in college:

    Alum: Hey~~ what year did you graduate?
    Me: (2009) I graduate this year...
    Alum: Cool, cool~ I graduated in 1984
    Me: Wow... the same year as my mom...
    Alum: Cool~~ so you want some beer?

    He later tried to drag me into a stairwell to make out with him >.> This is a pretty normal situation, which is why I always use the buddy system and am not afraid to kick where the sun don't shine >.>
     
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    Dude, that is terrifying.
    I'm impressed you seem as composed as you do about that.
     
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    No one! Yaaay!
     
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    I've been through worse, so~ nothing to do but keep going, try not to think about these things too often, and try to keep myself safer in the future~ ^.^
     
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    Nobody.
     
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    I would like to attract someone who could always make me laugh amazing smile and eyes that make me melt. Someone I could wake up every morning to and someone to come home to. Of course I'd be in charge of all the household duties but I'd also work. Physical appearance wise... there's nothing wrong with being in shape and having muscles but lately I've been revaluating what I find attractive and lately I kinda like my guys taller than me. Preferably 6 foot or taller.. but love has no size do. He has to be a major sweety though so it can contrast with my usual sarcastic devil may care attitude at times. I also find guys who try and act manly but end up epic failing and looking so Adorbs. One day this'll be a reality though. ╮(╯▽╰)╭╮(╯▽╰)╭ hopefully
     
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    I think I'll probably attract someone with a very strange taste in men.

    Typically, given my sexual orientation, I do seem attract women. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Also, to all those saying 'no-one', I don't believe any of it. You just wait and see.
     
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    I have always seemed to attract those that are emotionally and financially dependent. I always end up being the sole provider. Why I have allowed that to happen time and time again I'll never know!

    I'd like to attract a woman with similar interests, who I can laugh and make memories with, share my life with, and someone who puts as much into the relationship as I do. Other than that, I'm not too picky.
     
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    to be honest, i don't even think nobody is attracted to me *except my ex lol*
    I'm not a social butterfly, i tend to spend my time alone and i have only several close friends...so yeah.. even though i've met a lot of people, they just passed by in my life
     
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    As someone who's kinda.. alternative in how they represent themselves, I really don't attract many people, which is fine by me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Personality-wise, however, I tend to attract people who are just a wee bit batshit :grin: I think you have to be a fair bit off your rocker to put up with me.
     
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    From my own experience, nothing but trouble.
     
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    XD I'm an infj
     
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    From my experience, everyone who has liked me has had/has some kind of emotional struggle
     
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    haha I wish I could be cocky but, it's hard to be positive on myself.
    I'll just say what my past partners have said at least...
    That since I am a dominant type and moreso the "pants" in a relationship. I may attract someone more submissive that is okay with my need to prove myself all the time haha.
    As well as I am apparently a very "sexual desired" person and seem to attract those that are also interested in active sex.
     
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    I like someone like myself. That doesn't mean I haven't crushed on someone outside of my normal "type" but generally I'll like someone masculine, near average height-tall, tan and blue/green eyes. I prefer brown hair but I crush on more guys with blonde hair like me.
     
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    Anyone who's very open-minded, somewhat intelligent, enjoys long talks about anything. Anyone who completes my deficiencies as a person. Basically, anyone who's opposite of my personality. :lol: