Ok i am a high school sophomore, and my lesbian friend has a WHOLE bunch of lgbt friends that i met well over a month ago, and they are some of the best people but...i have a HUGE crush on one of them, he is so sweet, and HOT AF, but he has a boyfriend. I want to date him so bad, and he's a senior so i kind of want to be with him before he graduates but I dont want to interfere with his relationship with his boyfriend. What should I do? (before you suggest; my friend already suggested to wait until they break up and make a move.)
Mmm... I would do the ethical thing and not make a move on him, for your sake and his, especially since he's in a relationship. Even if he were to break up with his boyfriend, you don't want to be his rebound. But yea. I know the struggle with hot guys that are taken. Oof. You can look but you can't touch. It's just one of the many sucky things about life...
Yeah that is true, thanks for the advice, i'll probably only make a move if 2 things happen...If he is single, and i know he like me back.
That sounds perfectly fine. Just be really careful. You definitely don't want to be the person responsible for the couple breaking up. That's just bad juju, haha
Forget about him, life is too short for people who are unavaliable. You derserve better than to wait for someone to break up, it might not even happen. You said your friend has some more LGBT friends, go for one of them that is avaliable. Or wait, getting the right person in time is much better than immediately getting someone who isn't right for you. When you find the right person who is avaliable then this crush will go from being huge to tiny.
