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Gay guys, how do you like to be flirted?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by mychemromance99, Nov 10, 2015.

  1. kageshiro

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    Not a chance, I wont look in someones eyes if I'm just flirting with them. Eye contact in my view is reserved for moments of explicit intimacy.
     
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    LOL, dude! If someone did those things to me, I honestly would assume he have a plan of doing something bad to me. I would hold tighter on my wallet and ready my phone to dial 911. I'll never have a boyfriend :lol:
     
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    (!):roflmao: lol
     
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    I see. So the one I knew years ago was probably interested in me as well, but I found it weird and didn't take it seriously. Even though I hadn't come out at that time, I did sense it somehow. I felt as if he wanted me to approach him instead.
     
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    No one ever flirts with me either ! :tears:
    But i always like it when ppl call me cute :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Hehe
    I love it when someone appreciates my intelligence/compliments me!
    :frowning2: but it sucks right now as my butt garnered some rather embaressing comments :!
     
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    I find it very endearing when guys are overly transparent in their attempts to impress me. I can be a little oblivious so direct is good, just not lewd.
     
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    I am the same.

    I have been hit on once. At the time I was still in denial, so I backed away. A week later he asked if I would have sex with him. I said no thanks, but looking back, I should have started stripping right then and there! *Keep in mind this was a close friend and not a stranger.:icon_wink
     
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    I don't know. I just assume every guy is straight, so I'm like nahhh he couldn't be.

    But if someone ever does, I usually try to get the hell out of there before I do something stupid. (don't do this)
     
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    Yeah, I usually ignore any kind of body language that could be flirting as being nice, because unless it's obvious, I assume they're straight.

    As for flirting, I've never really done it. Okay I have, but it wasn't your normal eye contact body touching whatever, I just tried to have good conversations with them with me sitting slightly closer than usual. They either didn't get the hint, were straight, or not interested because they didn't respond to any of it.
     
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    My best advice would be not to touch. I really hate being touched by strangers in any sort of provocative manner. It just makes me feel awful and I wouldn't really want to be with someone like that.
     
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    This is me around hot and cute boys. I just look away cause I can feel my heart race if the guy looks back at me, then I try and catch a glimpse of him looking at me. If he is still looking I'll just make myself look cuter by tightening my butt and doing other things.
     
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    There's clearly two majorities.
    Some despise touch and prefer eye contact.
    While others like touch.

    I prefer eye contact. Its personal and does'nt feel as invading as touching someone.
     
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    I don't know.