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Lesbians don't like to date bi girls?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Raining, Nov 4, 2015.

  1. Distant Echo

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    Yeah. That's just - no. I'll date who I damn well please and if that means I don't fit in with the lesbian community - well, I've never fitted in anyway lol. I've wasted quite enough time only dating who I was expected to date...not putting up with that shit now :grin:
     
  2. Raining

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    I agree... I tend to try not to judge anyone by who they are!

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    ty for all the replys! I really was upset by hearing that :/
     
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    I think it's just a matter of insecurity. That the chances of infidelity are doubled because they are attracted to both men and women. Your potential competition is larger. For some lesbians, they're worried that they won't be as good as a man. But that logic is ridiculous to me, honestly. If you and your partner have chemistry, it doesn't matter what their gender is.
     
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    A lot of gay guys and lesbians are insecure in dating a bi person. Not only there's the stereotype that bisexuals are prone to cheat, but also that they might reject a same-sex relationship and move to a straight one sooner or later due to conveniency.
     
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    In my experience that insecurity goes for a lot of straight people as well.
     
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    I would date bi girls. It's not the sexuality that defines one's fidelity, it's their personality. Bi girls can be committed. Gay girls can be committed. Bi girls can cheat just as gay girls can cheat. If I like a girl and she likes me back, why would it even matter if she's bi or gay?
     
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    I'm going out on a limb and guessing that some lesbians think Bi means you need both and will cheat. .as if all lesbians were non-cheaters. Honestly I'm confident and smart enough to know that shouldn't be held against someone. I am a lesbian stud and I would date a bi-girl. (!)