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Curious about bisexuality

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by armydude, Nov 1, 2015.

  1. Raziel

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    That's your breed of bisexual then.
     
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    I'm physically attracted to both, but much more romantically attracted to girls. & more attracted to girls overall really.
     
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    I guess the best way of describing my bisexuality is that I'm, for lack of a better term, pickier when it comes to men in regards to physical attractiveness than with women. I appreciate a greater variety of physical varieties in females but with men the criteria is a lot stricter. Regardless, I am much more interested in being in a long term relationship with male than a female, it just seems the most "right" to me.
     
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    It's pretty much 50/50 for me.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Its pretty much 50/50, it changes as well but overall its that.
     
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    It's always been a tough call for me. I still haven't pinned it down completely, but I know that I like the feminine appearance and personality on women.

    That being said, I don't usually find myself attracted to women, and when I am, they're usually famous actors, my current favorites are Sarah Wayne Callies (Prison Break, The Walking Dead) and Jennifer Anniston (Friends, is all I know :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)

    There have been times where I think it'd be easier to just call myself gay and leave it at that, but I'm fairly sure that I am attracted to women, at least on some scale. And at the very least, if I want femininity in my life, I'd probably get it from a woman, because men I like aren't too feminine lol
     
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    It's not exactly 50/50, but it rarely goes beyond 60/40 in either direction, plus many men and women I am into aren't exactly the type most straight or gay people find appealing, anyway.

    On a site like EC, you're going to see a lot more folk on the gayer side of bisexuality, but I figure there are just as many in the heterosexual world, it's just a lot more taboo to say so.
     
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    I'm not sure whether I'm or bi or a lesbian, because even though I also like guys a little bit, I mostly like women, and I find it much easier to be attracted to them.

    Bisexuality doesn't have to be 50/50, just go with whatever makes you feel the most comfortable right now :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm about as 50/50 as a living thing can possibly be. And I kinda think as more bisexuals stay out of the closet for longer periods of time in our generation, we're going to see the ones that don't shift to one side eventually shifting to the center later in life. That seems to be what has happened to me.

    At first it may seem like a rollercoaster of attraction, very disorienting. But after 10 years of this it actually feels quite peaceful to me. I draw personal strength from my bisexuality.
     
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    I find that I'm attracted to more women than men, but more attracted to men than women.

    (fucking love English grammar)
     
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    I prefer girls physically but seem to get along better with males.
     
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    I am a huge believer in the idea that sexuality is fluid. I'm bi, and most of the time I'm way more attracted to girls than guys, but I'm in a monogamous, long-term, hetero relationship. But 90% of the time, when someone catches my eye, it's a girl (because let's not lie and try to pretend eyes don't wander just because you're committed to someone). Yet sometimes I just fawn over guys. Things change. At least I'm comfortable with the identity I was finally able to realize, and I think that's the part that matters. Not necessarily assigning a label, but being comfortable and confident to be yourself.
     
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    I am attracted to men more, but with that said, I do go through phases. In general though, I lean straight. I rate myself a 2.5 on the Kinsey scale
     
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    it changes. always both (/all), sometimes equal. sometimes not. there are some days where i think i could identify almost completely gay, others straight. just depends.
     
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    I consider myself bisexual, and I'm attracted to men, women and non-cis genders. I only had experiences with men, but I would equally like being with other gender.
     
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    Hi chiroptera,
    I am also Bi, and have had experiences with both men and women. However, I am quite choosy when it comes to women. but i love all genders equally.
     
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    Find a girl who you can play with... You never know till you try! (Play safely and only if you're sure! Make sure the girl doesn't want strings attached... no reason to go breaking hearts!)