I don't care either about penis size, but I do feel for you Jamie1975, and had similar experiences at local sauna's , why are some people just so mean ???
Um, I mean of course it matters to some degree. But my hubby is more to me that just a walking dick, y'know?
penis size is not something i really care about... if he is small thats fine. if he is big, well that will probably scare me a little, so lets just say im not going to bottom haha. over all its not as big of a deal as people make it out to be. you cant pick the size of your penis, so i dont see a reason to make someone feel bad about it.
I would guess size does matter if love is not involved. I'm sure people have certain preferences, but if you are on a mission to find someone with your ideal penis length, you will never be in a relationship. If you have a penis, who can complain? It's not like people choose their penis size. It's like rejecting someone for who they are. That's how I see it.
If it's a fling, he may as well have it where it counts. Let's say 6. But if it's about romance, I'd say 4. "5" averaged out I guess.
I threw down a 4. I'm generally not too concerned with what's in anyone's pants, but it's not exactly like a bigger dick would be a "negative," y'know? At least not to me.
Voted 0 here. I love the person number 1. If it gets hard and ejaculates what more do you need. Don't get the hype on size. My first lover was maybe 5 inches at best but all I can say is Mmm and WOW!
I voted 5. It's a strange reasoning, though. Penis size is not a huge turn-on for me. I'd be happy dating a guy with a very small penis. So apart from sex, it's absolutely non-important. Size would matter for sex, but not the way one might think. I honestly think I'd be happier with a penis that's not huge. A huge penis could be too much to deal with. Too small could also cause problems. So...size could be a practical issue. Split the difference, and we end up with 5. Although the largest issue is simply the guy the penis is attached to. The right guy comes along, and I'll adapt to whatever penis he has, whether you need a microscope to see it, or if he needs a crane to pull it out when taking a leak.
I'm a lesbian, and I'll admit, I love strap-ons. My girlfriend is genderqueer and she likes to pretend it's real to help with her slight dysphoria. I love it. It's very sexy to me, but I don't care about the size. Too big is actually kind of scary to me... o_o ---------- Post added 8th Dec 2015 at 07:29 PM ---------- What a shit-dick. Who would want to fuck an asshole like that? I'm so sorry he was so mean. I was watching a sex show one time and one woman was talking about how her husband was insecure about his 3-inch penis. She said it didn't matter to her because he fucked her like a beast and she orgasms every time, lol! Hang in there. You'll find someone who is worth your time. <3
Not really important. I mean, a penis on the larger side can be quite the turn-on, but come on, there are more important things ^.~
5. It's not important as long as it isn't too big, I prefer smaller than average, but I'm not gonna say no if it's not my ideal size. Large schlongs frighten me, though.
0. Penises certainly aren't a requirement as far as I'm concerned, and I'm an enthusiastic advocate of working with whatever you've got in whatever way works for both parties! ...This said, I've literally never come into contact with a flesh-and-blood penis, haha. But if I DID, that's my opinion!
I voted ( 5 ) before I really read the question properly. In a relationship its not that important. Porn cocks are scary looking things so they're out, but my last boyfriend didn't have much in that department and it wasn't all that satisfying. So if I could pick I would want a guy with a medium sized one, say like 6 inches and can't quite get your fingers fully around it. :icon_bigg
I don't care about it either and I voted 2 for just some cases... But generally I care about body and most of all the personality of the guy but at the first look it's always body and the face for me...
It depends if the question is "how important is penis size in attraction/interest?" or "how important is penis size in the actual sex?" Different answers.