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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by AfraidandAlone, Oct 18, 2015.

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  1. Ruby Dragon

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    It sounds like a fairytale. Congrats! I hope things continue to go well between you. It's so awesome to read stories like this
     
    #21 Ruby Dragon, Oct 22, 2015
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    And I knew it was to good to be true. Her parents are giving her a really hard time about it because we work together and they think she can do better (which I tottally agree with...) so I guess I really don't know :'(
     
    #22 AfraidandAlone, Oct 22, 2015
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    I noticed that you are transgender--are you post op? If so is she a lesbian? If she is a lesbian (or bi/pan etc.) and you are post op, try and see if something develops with her. If she is straight don't go any further because things will likely fall apart when you transition. If she is a lesbian and you are pre op, it is unlikely that anything will develop, but post transition it might be worth pursuing something if you still like her in that way.
     
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  4. AfraidandAlone

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    No I am pre op I don't plan on transitioning or any thing like that. I guess if that was it at least I know that at least some one wants me. I just want this to work out so bad.
     
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    Wow she really is amazin, she is even willing to stand up to her parents and tell them she wants to go out with me and be with me and I make her happy.
     
    #25 AfraidandAlone, Oct 22, 2015
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    Well I came out to her tonight and she said it doesn't change any thing and that she wouldn't tell any one!
     
    #26 AfraidandAlone, Oct 23, 2015
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    That is amazing! Congrats!!!!
     
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    Oh wow! That is so amazing! I hope everything goes well for you two!
     
    #28 BookWriter1994, Oct 23, 2015
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    Thanks every one, we already have our second date planed ^_^ dinner and a hockey game :slight_smile:. Was only going to be a hockey game but the only way she would let me pay for it is if she bought dinner.
     
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    Omg saying she is a dream come true is an understatement. She is so far beyond any thing I could have ever dreamed of. I'm fairly certain our next date will be to the peanuts movie. I really hope we can get a day off together soon.
     
    #30 AfraidandAlone, Oct 30, 2015
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    Awwww <3 so cute! You go girl! :slight_smile:
     
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    That's really amazing :slight_smile:
     
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    Know it's been a while since I've been on here sorry about that... but well I'm fairly certain it's over... her parents hate me, er sister and brother in law hate me (even though they have never met me) we haven't been able to see each other for about a week and the little bit we have talked it's been mostly one word replies if she replies at all. It's ok though part of me has always known I would be alone for ever. Maybe I'm wrong but I don't know I just have this feeling. Next time a girl asks me out I'll just do what I've always done befor say no and make am excuse.
     
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    I feel so happy for you and reading this has made me so much more happier!!
     
    #34 EnchanterForest, Jan 19, 2016
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    Glad me being single again makes some one happy -_-
     
    #35 AfraidandAlone, Jan 19, 2016
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    They probably only read the first page of your thread. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but don't lose hope. One day there will be someone else or maybe even her. Who knows.
     
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    It seems like these last few months have just helped prove I cause people nothing but problems so I'm just going to do every one a favour and go back to being the loner I was. At least that way the only person I can hurt is me.
     
    #37 AfraidandAlone, Jan 19, 2016
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    I'm so fucking stupid I should have known some one like me could never keep some one like her. Yea now I know it's over. Guess my life is back to normal
     
    #38 AfraidandAlone, Jan 21, 2016
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