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Would you date someone with an imaginary friend?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Andstillimhere7, Oct 7, 2015.

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Would you date someone with an imaginary friend

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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    41.4%
  3. Maybe

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  1. Gen

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    This sounds like a scary movie concept.

    The last thing I need is for Imaginary Bob to get jealous of our relationships and try to take me out of the equation. I am usually the lenient one when it comes to these threads, but I'll pass.
     
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    Well if you pretend your plush toys are real and you are just using them to bounce ideas off and such (read "rubber duck debugging" as an example), then I think it's okay. But if you really think there's an imaginary person idk. I don't think I'd understand it. It would be a red flag that you have mental issues so no.
     
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    I probably would. Obviously it depends on how much of a friend they are to them, but if it was just someone they talked to every now and then, then I'd be fine with it.

     
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    I'd say no in most cases, unless it was like a daydream style imaginary person.
     
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    I don't see anything wrong with it. I guess it would be awkward if I had to talk to the imaginary friend and my partner would respond for them but if it was just them talking to their imaginary friend, I don't see any issues. It would be like someone talking to themselves.
     
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    It would depend on the friend, honestly. I can be quite a judgmental and possessive bitch. :icon_twis
     
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    Honestly I wouldn't. If you are talking to an imaginary friend you probably should go talk to a therapist instead. I'm not trying to be mean but a therapist is who you are suppose to talk to about pretty much all things. Plus I would be kind of freaked out and as if I was in an adult version of the movie Hide and Seek.
     
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    I mean, if this is a joke or comfort thing and the person knows that the friend is imaginary, yes, I do talk to myself, to my pets and sometime even to my consoles :slight_smile:thumbsup:slight_smile: but I don't, let's say, make my cat decide for me.
    If they believe that friend is real and are influenced by "it", "it" makes decision for them or whatever, well no.
     
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    I wouldn't mind. It shows that the person has an imagination.
     
  10. Andstillimhere7

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    I won't go that far. I just talk to them about my problems and possible solutions, but I won't treat them as physical beings.
     
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    i agree.
     
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    I think it depends on the definition of "imaginary friend." Is it a spirit guide or an angel? Is it the fact that they can feel the presence of a dead family member near them? These kinds of things are totally cool with me~

    If they are chatting with an empty chair and having full on conversations with them in public or with me there and I'm supposed to accept this entity as a part of the relationship... no.
     
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    No I wouldn't be able to take them seriously.
     
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    No.

    I don't even understand why someone would have an imaginary friend. Talking to myself is enough for me. If a potential partner takes an imaginary friend seriously, then they're not a potential partner anymore.
     
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    What if we're the imaginary friend?
     
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    No I wouldn't. It seems it would be only a matter of time before I start finding bodies and the guy says it was his "friend" who did it. :icon_eek:
     
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    I think that this is a legitimate thing because my boyfriend is imaginary at the moment but when I get a boyfriend, I think imaginary boyfriend will leave cause I'll have the real thing.
     
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    Well no. I'm an atheist. :wink:
     
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    You're a savage
     
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    I would. If i loved someone, it wouldn't matter to me if they had an imaginary friend.