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Any gay men who have fascination with women?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by confused155, Oct 4, 2015.

  1. QBear

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    Vaginas definitely feel wonderful to be inside.
    I can't speak to the feeling of being inside a guy, though, because despite having fooled around with several guys, I've never done that.
    But, perhaps that's because I have strong bottom tendencies. ;-) lol
     
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    From a physical perspective, going inside a woman's vagina feels a lot like going inside a man, except
    1. The missionary position is far easier with a woman than with a man.
    2. You need a lot less or no lube (depending on her age).
    3. Men are tighter (at least in my experience).
    Being more attracted to guys or gals may also tip the scales in favor of one of the experiences :slight_smile:
     
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    I am Gay (only recently came out). I guess I didn't realize it, but a gay friend of mine keeps (and many others) insisting that I'm probably Bi. Apparently, he's noticed me checking out attractive women in public pretty much every time I am out. (He says it's something he looks for when trying to figure out whether a guy is gay or straight).

    I wasn't even really fully aware I was still doing it, but I definitely notice attractive females (and like to think of what they would look like naked and what it would be like to have sex with them), but I still think of myself as gay, because I don't really care if I ever sleep with another woman again.

    I have only started becoming more sexual with men (still haven't had sex with a dude yet), but even making out with a guy, as opposed to a woman, I can def. tell I enjoy it way more.
     
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    Confuseddude, why do you think nothing would 'work' with a woman?
    Do you think you wouldn't become aroused?
    Or that you want things sexually that you think a woman wouldn't want to give you?
    (e.g. you like receiving anal sex)

    If it's the former, then fair enough. That's a real limitation.
    If it's the latter, I just want to point out that some women are totally into penetrating guys with strap-ons and what not. So don't limit the folks you could date based solely on the sex acts you like to engage in.

    Just sayin'.
     
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    Hey QBear
    I'm attracted to women in real life and I'm aroused by them in porn but O question whether I would be aroused in real life. Whether that's because deep down I'm homosexual and not bisexual or because of the anxiety I face wondering about it/remembering past experiences.

    Having said that - you're right, I would ideally want thigs that your average women is unlikely to be interested in. I don't doubt that the women exist but finding one is a lot easier said than done.
     
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    I actually talked about this with my boyfriend a while back, and I asked if he found women attractive at all. He's like nope, not one bit. I'm guessing he's Kinsey 6 + or something.

    So in his case, he knows for sure that he isn't attracted to women. I think in the end, my attractions do not change based on the label I put upon myself.

    I remember way back when I started meeting up with guys, I panicked, and I started asking myself if this was something I would do. Turns out I loved it, so no worries there.

    Sexuality is a complicated thing =.=