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Can you talk to a hot guy/girl without being awkward?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Driftr, Sep 17, 2015.

  1. kageshiro

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    Let's see, I just don't do it that often because the only reason I'll start talking to someone is if I think we have something in common... I mean, I talk to alot of attractive women and befriended some pretty attractive guys in the past so, I don't think this is a problem for me. Then again, no one is more attractive than me so that's probably why...
     
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    I can't talk to anyone without being awkward.
     
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    I feel awkward, but I think that I can handle it well and at least appear to be normal.
     
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    Every time I see a cute girl I am unable to properly operate. One time, a girl I liked said "*SQUEAL* I have that sweater!" And I went " OH. UM. REALLY? THANKS" And got really hot in the face. I tend to stare a lot too, so to avoid making people feel uncomfortable, I just avoid all eye contact.:icon_redf:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Sometimes I can get pretty nervous which makes it a bit awkward. But most of the time it's alright really, though I blush so easily :icon_redf so that somehow ends up giving it away sometimes. Gotta work on that
     
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    I'm friends with a group of beautiful girls.
    I was accepted because I had similar interests in literary, art, and habit of being nerdy.
    Though I guess my case was special, but I've asked my friends once why they liked me, and all of them replied that I was kind, caring, and had a face that was asking to be pinched.
    I've had once asked my celebrity of a friend on how she made so many friends, and she advised me to be more open and treat others as you would them treat you.
    So I guess you just have to talk to them as you would to yourself, and stand above all your insecurities.
    But really, if they judge and despise you, then they really aren't worth anyone's time.
     
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    Nope :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I used to be terrible talking with guys in general, but I'm getting better at it :wink:
     
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    yup bc I am not you so I just think that they will never know it was flirting (unless they are of a higher social rank then me then I might get a little nervous)
     
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    If they are total stranger then I will probably choke and say something stupid. Sometimes when I don't think about it i can have perfect conversations without being awkward but other times my brain just freezes.