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How to get over the person you love?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by tentacles, Sep 13, 2015.

  1. tentacles

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    I'm in love with one of my best friends. She is a lesbian too, but she's been talking to me about this girl she likes and is straight. I'm heartbroken, I've never felt this way before. I need to get over her, but that seems impossible.
    Have you ever been in a situation like this? What did you do? Did things get better?
     
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    What's stopping you from telling her about your feelings? Nothing can happen if the girl she likes is really straight, and maybe she doesn't realize you like her as more than a friend.
     
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    Tell her you like her what's stopping you......does she know your orientation.

    Live for the moment I say
     
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    Tell her you like her! There's a higher chance of her getting with you than with the girl she has a crush on, if that girl is really straight as you say.
     
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    My best friend is a female lesbian i've known for almost 3 years now... we used to date but broke up a year ago... she has another partner now and is probably over me, but I feel like i want to spend the rest of my life with her and only her... if anyone else has any help on this it'd be appreciated :/