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How feminine is your body language?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by sporn, Sep 9, 2015.

  1. Weregild

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    I don't know. I wish someone told me.
     
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    I've tried to keep it fairly neutral. I'm not a fan of hugely masculine body language, and I'd probably be a bit more feminine in my presentation if not for wanting to attract the ladies as well... they'd interpret those signals as a sign that I'm not an option sadly.
     
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    The way I sit: Feminine

    Hand gestures: Quite flamboyant
     
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    It's not. I've never had feminine body language and I've tended to speak with a deeper tone for a long time, too.
     
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    I sit in a very feminine way and I've always been like that except for on occasion where I would slouch and open my legs very wide, this only occasionally happens. For my other body language, I see myself as neutral, in that I have enough feminine and masculine body language that neither gender expression dominates.
     
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    I guess when I get really excited I tend to jump a little in my place, but other than that, I don't really consider any aspect of my body language particularly 'feminine' lol
     
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    I use my hands to talk a lot, but my posture is dreadful. I'm very slouchy. I bite my fingers a lot and I'm fidgety.

    Some parts are femme, others are masc. It's just me, I guess!
     
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    Quite feminine.
     
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    I always walk on the balls of my feet if that counts... I don't think I consciously have any effeminate traits other than that...
     
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    I'm more undercover, i'll explain, i tend to behave somewhat ordinary but now and then i have this little feminine traits that i tend to do, especially if i'm not paying attention (hand gestures etc). My sister keeps telling me "You're doing it again" whenever i tend to do that.
     
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    Enough I've had a friend wonder where I was sexual orientation wise.

    I've noticee personally: I talk soft and like to let my emotions out. I try to comfort friends by hugging them, and I do keep my legs together.

    I seem to be more feminine physically than male (sex is male). I'm short for a guy (barely 5'7), narrow waist with hourglass frame, boobs due to being overweight at one point (yes I measured them), and nice legs/butt. I've had women say I have beautiful legs and they're jealous of my butt.
     
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    I can't always tell whether a type of body language is typically seen, in society, as feminine or masculine. I think my body language is more masculine more of the time, at least I try to make it more masculine, but I was raised to act/behave as feminine as possible growing up (eg sitting with my legs crossed and close together). So I don't know. I kind of wish someone could just passively observe me for a while and let me know.
     
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    I wanted to be a girl when I was little, and I was also quite feminine. But I had to change myself through puberty so I'm rather neutral now in terms of body and mannerism, I guess.
     
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    I thought I was quite obviously gay to people around me, but able to hide it from people I needed to. Apparently, though, that's not true. I had to tell someone I went to school with for 5 years that I was gay because she didn't realise. My body language must be pretty masculine, and my speech patterns definitely are.
     
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    I think it's almost 40 male/ 60 female for me. When I'm wearing dresses and skirts,
    I appear 90% feminine though. When I play sports, I'm 90% masculine looking. No one would say I "throw like a girl" or skate like a figure skater, that's for sure.

    Being bi, this suits me fine.
     
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    It depends on who I'm with at the time~ I like being super cutesy~ and am more cutesy the more I like someone or when I'm working with my younger students, haha~ I tell them that I'm actually a princess, so it cracks them up XD;;; but I can also be quite "unladylike" and curse up a storm, especially when I'm around guys or people I'm more jokey with... I love gratuitous cursing, haha~

    As for body language... my family was quite strict about my appearance and my movements, so if I'm sitting in public I usually look like I'm posing for a school picture, because my hands will be one-over-the-other on my lap XD;;;; If I'm by myself, my legs are probably akimbo and not ladylike at all (sorry, my parents... lol)

    And for facial expressions... I'm very expressive, so much so that my bff and I used to talk solely with facial expressions to freak people out, haha~ But, I'm also really good at keeping a poker face, another thing my parents drilled into me, haha~ So... I'd say, super feminine, except for when I'm lazing around the house ^.^
     
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    I think the majority of my mannerisms may be feminine. The way I sit, usually by crossing my legs and holding the top leg up/the twirl of my top foot. The flamboyance in my voice when I get excited or when I'm comfortable in my surroundings. I've even caught myself holding feminine poses while examining stuff. :lol: