1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

What is Your Earliest Memory of Your First Gay Experience?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by chrisJ, Aug 30, 2015.

  1. Foz

    Foz Guest

    Joined:
    Mar 17, 2015
    Messages:
    979
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    You Kay
    Gender:
    Male
    In my experience yes, my friends and I were pretty close like that and we did like showing off our feats of puberty :lol:

    But my earliest memories were from about the age of 12 where I was having dreams of kissing and doing things with boys and I started checking out other boys when we were getting changed for PE. My cousin who's the same age as me was a competitive swimmer and my favourite part of seeing him compete became seeing seeing the other boys in their speedos!

    I just didn't understand what it meant until I was 14 and still didn't fully get it until I was 16/17.
     
    #21 Foz, Aug 30, 2015
    Last edited: Aug 30, 2015
  2. luckycar

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2014
    Messages:
    28
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Memphis TN
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    I didn't understand that I was gay until I was about 15, but before that I knew that I liked men much earlier. I was accidentally exposed to porn way too early in life at about age 4 and even then I knew that I liked men. I don't know how to describe it other than I just knew right then and there that I liked men and not women.
     
  3. Phioo

    Phioo Guest

    Joined:
    Aug 20, 2015
    Messages:
    243
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Italy
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Family only
    Lol
     
  4. sartorious

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Apr 14, 2015
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    indonesia
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    In a dream : Early 7th grade, me and a certain senior whom i had a crush on that time was just kissing in that scene

    Experimenting using porn : Late 7th grade

    1st Base with a guy : 6 weeks ago

    3rd base (because there are obviously no 2nd base with a guy) : 2 weeks ago with the same guy as the 1st base guy who now became my first BF :grin:
     
  5. Nekobi

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jun 30, 2015
    Messages:
    154
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Winchester
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    I don't think I can ever remember truly being interested in boys, even though I had a boyfriend once, when I was about 6 or 7. We were good friends and I think I only accepted cause I didn't know it was possible to like girls.

    I remember my sister and her friend pranked me once by putting a naked doll in my bed. When I found it I was like:
    ( ⸝⸝⸝¯ ³ ¯⸝⸝⸝)Ewwww... (◦///Δ///◦) wait... ( ⸝⸝⸝¯ ³ ¯⸝⸝⸝)ew
     
  6. mangotree

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 4, 2014
    Messages:
    1,322
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Queensland, Australia
    OMG, swimming club. That brings back some memories too.
     
  7. the haunted

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2014
    Messages:
    789
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    United States
    There was this girl I saw naked when we were both in 5th grade. I sat in my closet and drew her naked body. I saved my drawings and hid them in my books lol.
     
  8. BookWriter1994

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Nov 28, 2014
    Messages:
    644
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    It Doesn't Snow Here :P
    Gender:
    Female
    Hmm, I believe I was like 10 or something, and I was over at my grandma's friends house and she had a daughter and we were in the basement/living room type thing and we were playing house and we kissed. Her mom kicked out and told me to leave.
     
  9. rudysteiner

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 4, 2015
    Messages:
    684
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Liverpool, UK
    Um.. My first true gay experience was when I was 15, and I'm almost 18 now so it wasn't that long ago.

    I was over at a friend's house, I thought I was bi at the time, and he knew. He'd told me to come over because there was his gay friend at his house. He'd come to dye his hair for him or something, I don't know.. Well anyway.. The three of us were in his room, just talking, smoking (I know.. Ugh) and eating pizza, when the gay guy, let's say he's called Jake, starts flirting with me, purposely disagreeing with things I've said, boasting about how he's got A's and A*'s in everything because he knows it grinds my gears when people boast about their intelligence. My friend, whose house it was, left the room (most likely on purpose), and Jake, while we were both on opposite sides of the bed, says: 'Well, do you want to kiss me or not?' and I'd never kissed a guy before so I said 'Err..? Go on then..' So he moves across the bed, plants his lips on mine and then bam. We're kissing. My friend comes back in and is like 'Whoa! I'll just go down stairs.' He leaves the room, and grabs my, uh.. Manhood, and says to tell him when to stop, but I'm not about to get sucked off on my friend's bed, while his Mum and Dad are downstairs, during my first gay experience, so we kiss for a few more minutes and I tap out and I go downstairs before him, see my friend, and his Mum just says 'What have you been doing up there with Jake?' and then I'm like :icon_redf:lol: and we both laugh it off. Me, Jake and my friend go to McDonald's, Jake goes home, me and my friend go back to McDonald's (I know, fat huh?) and he's like 'So what happened' and I just say 'I didn't know you'd lost your eyes. Did that happen on the way here?' and we go back to his house and get stoned and now every time I see him, he'll always wind me up about it. :bang:
     
  10. lovetoomuch

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 11, 2014
    Messages:
    375
    Likes Received:
    5
    This is embarrassing but I just remember a cute guy in my class in 6th grade taking off his one shirt (he had another one under) and it exposing his abs. I checked him out for quite some time (because he couldn't see with his shirt blocking his face while he was taking it off).

    I remember telling him that I saw a girl in our class checking him out... even though I was the one doing it. These are moments you think back on and just say, "Why?"
     
  11. ChameleonSoul

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 11, 2014
    Messages:
    1,131
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Upstate New York
    My first gay experience was when I just turned 15. School started back up again and so far I considered myself 100% straight. But a few weeks in I started to develop feelings for one of my friends who was just out of their awkward stage. At the time I completely denied it and it wasn't until halfway through the next school year that I learned to accept being gay.
     
  12. rudysteiner

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 4, 2015
    Messages:
    684
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Liverpool, UK
    Abs in primary school? Were you staring at Vin Diesel? :lol:
     
  13. lovetoomuch

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 11, 2014
    Messages:
    375
    Likes Received:
    5
    Abdominal region:icon_redf Not a six pack or anything haha
     
  14. rudysteiner

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 4, 2015
    Messages:
    684
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Liverpool, UK
    I thought so. :lol: You wouldn't want to mess with someone who's had a six pack since before they were 10 years old. :eek:
     
  15. AJ56

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 24, 2015
    Messages:
    260
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    South Florida
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    My first experience was kinda late. It was my freshman year of high school and there was this really cute Latino guy in one of my classes. He was a sophomore at the time. I moved to where he was sitting just so I could talk to him. He was such a friendly guy and funny too. I developed a huge crush on him, but didn't realize it at the time.
     
  16. Willa

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2015
    Messages:
    193
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Virginia
    I can't remember the very first, but I remember in the sixth grade I had a huge crush on this blonde in my gym class named Jenny. She was tall and athletic. We played volleyball and rode horses together, which is already super gay. We were at the stables one day and a bunch of us were playing hide and seek and Jenny and I ended up in the hayloft together. It was like a queer young adult novel, I swear. It was the weirdest thing. Nothing really happened, but we laid down facing each other and just stared at each other for a long time with our faces really close together. She was chewing mint gum and it smelled really good. It's so strange that I can remember that so specifically.
     
  17. Libra Neko

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2014
    Messages:
    936
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    the world my mind created
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I was an adult, it was okay. I've never really had a fulfilling sex life, either with men or women. I don't care that much though. My sexuality is fluid; sometimes it leans towards asexuality.
     
  18. CameronMR

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2015
    Messages:
    303
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Kootenays
    When I was about 8 or 9 my best friend who lived next door invited me over. We went into her moms room and we found her vibrator, the large hitachi-style wand type. She put it on my crotch, I had no idea what was really going on, but then very shortly I felt very weird, as she gave me my first orgasm. Apparently this was not her first time. does that count? My first orgasm via a girl? lol
     
  19. blaziken25

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 7, 2014
    Messages:
    428
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New Zealand
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I had fantasies about my female science teacher. I was about 12 - 13. Didn't know anything about lesbians so I substituted myself for a male character.

    I also had Kelly Clarkson fantasies :roflmao: :roflmao: :roflmao: and then more fantasies about my female best friend who I was semi in love with.
     
  20. JayR

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Oct 28, 2012
    Messages:
    130
    Likes Received:
    4
    Location:
    PH
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I think I remember having a crush on this guy on our 4th grade. He's so cute back then, and I don't know, I was very much attracted to him.