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How old were you when you came out for the 1st time (if you've come out)?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Kodo, Aug 26, 2015.

  1. Nick1020

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    18. It's all a matter of being confident in yourself and being damn sure that you are who you are and that ain't nobody gone tell you otherwise.
     
  2. looking for me

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    12 as bi, 13 as trans
     
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    I was 19 when I first came out to a friend of mine.
     
  5. ccdd

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    23. I'd probably have come out earlier if I was younger (I'm in my 30s now). Things were very different even 10-20 years ago!
     
  6. Time Lord10

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    16, it was just a couple months ago.
     
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    I haven't come out yet, though I'm hoping I will sometime this year...
     
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    I think I was 14 when I first came out about my sexuality, albeit accidentally. Then I came out some time in the following two years to the same guy about my gender jam.

    Both experiences were extremely ambiguous and damn weird.
     
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    I was 16 and came out as bisexual ^^