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do you look young

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Justinian20, Aug 25, 2015.

  1. Romin

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    I'm almost 18 and most people think that I'm a 12 year old.

    I blame the fact that I present very masculine. So not only do most people misread my gender upon meeting me, they think I'm much younger than I am because I have enough feminine features to appear prepubescent as far as cis male development is concerned.

    Most people who recognize me as female perceive me as my actual age, though. So I think it is really more based upon their misinterpretation of my gender than my actual face. lol
     
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    Age guessing software has been saying I am 22-27 for a couple years based on my face.

    On the phone, people have been thinking I was my dad for about three years now, and last year I got a few "I wish we could switch voices" (yeah, I do too, yours is higher)... I hate my voice.

    Last year I was asked how old I was, I said twelve, then I was called a lier and told I could not be under 15 or 16.

    I really wish I would stop growing now.
     
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    I can easily pass for a few years older than I am.
     
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    I don't think I look young, but everyone thinks I do. They say, "Take it as a blessing." I say, "Fake mustaches are a good investment."
     
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    I got mistaken as a 10 year old at a restaurant. x.x It was awkward. I look younger than I am.
     
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    I'm 36 and I get mistaken for a 25 year old
     
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    People always sound and look so surprised when I tell them I'm going to be in university in a few short months.
     
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    I look older then I am, and I can also pass off as an older person. Apparently I have a 'mature' face (I have RBS) and I can also be very mature if need be. I'm 16, and people mistake me for 18 sometimes. Though, it might be cause it's surprising to see a 15 year old alone at a class full of adults.

    It's annoying and funny at the same time.
     
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    I look like I am 10. It has its advantages.
     
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    People often thought I am 2-4 years younger than I really am.
     
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    The other day someone guessed I was 22. Felt good.
     
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    Yup, this is me. About 6 years ago I was carded at the liquor store...this happens sometimes, but I usually figure they probably have a policy about carding every nth customer no matter what. The clerk looked at my ID, looked at me, looked back at the ID, and said "I'm sorry...but I *never* would have guessed you are the age you are." She honestly thought I was under 21? Wow.

    Just a few months ago, a 17-year old and a mid-20's person commented on photos of me, and both said I didn't look much over 30 to them.

    I hope I can handle the transition out of this phase, 'cause it's kinda nice.
     
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    I do look younger - it runs in my family. Once when I was 22 or 23 I was mistaken for a 14-year-old :slight_smile:
     
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    Last weekend I was asked by two genuinely clueless academic staff whether I was looking at undergraduate or postgraduate studies. They really couldn't tell if I was in my teens or my early twenties.

    In the evening of that same day, however, I had a wine glass swiftly removed from my place by a waiter without question, so clearly I don't always pass as above 18 years old.

    I think I look my age, give or take a year.
     
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    It is very disappointing when people mistake me for being younger than I am. I'm actually in my early 20s but I'm often mistaken for someone who looks about 16-18. There are some positives but the negatives such as being refused pub entry because I look too young for entry if HIGHLY disappointing --- and having to be constantly checked for ID. I have a different ID since I used to live abroad, so most of the time establishments will not take the ID (even though its official) because they think its fake.
     
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    I'm 18, soon to be 19, and people still think I look 12. I hate it so much.
     
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    I'm 18 years old and people say I look my age. But as soon as I go to ex Spain or the US, people think I look 30-35.... I hate that :frowning2:
     
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    I'm 17 but look like I'm 13,14? Tragic.
     
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    I'm 20 and they call me "dad" on my hall. *shivers*
     
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    Oh yes... I'm 20. I'm mistaken for a teenager all the time. Part of it's because I'm FTM. I'm young enough where I can still sort of get away with the "I'm a late bloomer" excuse but that's already starting to push it.