Did you come out by choice or were you outed?

Kinda both, for me. It was funny-I already had doubts when the rumours about me being les started circulating in my level. Within my school we have 2 streams, and I'm in the minority stream, which at that time, only had 2 classes. We're split into 3 during our third year, but no one really moves out of the stream, so we pretty much know everyone. So in my second year there were rumours circulating about me being les. I didn't really care-not the first time. No idea how that person came up with that (she was homophobic then, went through a bi-curious phase (ironic, really) and now she supports them) but I ignored it so it died out.

Then half a year later I confirmed? I was bi XD I tell anyone who asks, or the like. Except my family. I think they know, but we don't have any sexuality talks, thankfully. But I may tell them, if they do ask.

 

I came out to a few by choice, and I felt much better about myself afterwards.