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Dominant or Submissive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ForNarnia, Jul 30, 2015.

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  1. Capricorn98

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    Submissive, a little too much maybe
     
    #21 Capricorn98, Jul 30, 2015
  2. Nocturnal

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    Dominant. I wouldn't mind switching on very few occasions though.
     
    #22 Nocturnal, Jul 30, 2015
  3. MCairo

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    Submissive most of the time.
     
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    I haven't ever been in a relationship and probably won't ever be, but I don't understand the apparent obsession with someone having to be dom/sub in a relationship, but maybe it's just me/whatever suits you. I personally see it as too cliché/silly. It just reeks inequality if you ask me, instead of some kinda yin yang.


    Tl;dr I don't see myself being either.
     
    #24 C P, Jul 31, 2015
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    Submissive one who keeps you wondering if he's a top or bottom. XD, people have a hard time figuring that out.
     
    #25 wannahavechange, Jul 31, 2015
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    Give and take, why limit your sexual experiences to dom or sub? Take turns, take snack breaks, as Lindsey Doe says, "Stay Curious."
     
    #26 queermeerkat, Jul 31, 2015
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    I am about the same...I see myself as more dominant but in rare cases I would be submissive to my partner. However, I am NOT one to be taken advantage of.
     
    #27 fragileflame, Jul 31, 2015
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    Strictly submissive as far as the bedroom is concerned. I get really turned off trying to act dominant. In other parts of life I'm mostly submissive as well, most people see it as one of my flaws though.
     
    #28 KayJay, Jul 31, 2015
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    Lean toward dominant, but it really depends on my mood.
     
    #29 guitar, Jul 31, 2015
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    Submissive, I can never see myself being Dominant.
     
    #30 Steam Mecha, Jul 31, 2015
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    I'd like to think of myself as dominant on the outside, but really actually submissive.
     
    #31 Sarii, Jul 31, 2015
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    In between, but mostly strongly leaning towards dominant. I kind of hate it, but I have to know I am in control...
     
    #32 MyLittleWorld, Jul 31, 2015
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    For me, it really depends on the other person and what the situation is. So I guess I'm 50/50.
     
    #33 sunshinebi, Jul 31, 2015
  14. AlexPanda94

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    Submissive as Hell.
    :icon_redf :icon_redf :icon_redf :icon_redf
     
    #34 AlexPanda94, Jul 31, 2015
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    Submissive but not to the point of being totally taken control over....
     
    #35 Sashafr, Jul 31, 2015
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    Though, I've never been in a relationship, I generally consider myself as being a switch.
     
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    Submissive, but willing to switch in a certain circumstances :grin:
     
    #37 sartorious, Aug 1, 2015
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    I've not been in a relationship, but I assume I could be either dominant, submissive, or both. It just depends on the personality of the other guy and what we're comfortable with.
     
    #38 CodeForLife, Aug 1, 2015
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    I'm fairly clearly submissive, yet my free spirit will never be shackled! (Unless someone really really wants to control it or at the very least kinda hints at it through some sort of minor barely noticeable gesture... :lol: )

    I just want others to be happy! :eusa_ange
     
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    Submissive. I want things done to me. :wink:
     
    #40 Wallace N, Aug 1, 2015
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