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Bisexuals, do you have a preference?

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  1. gravechild

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    Sexy people >_>
     
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    Girls... often I feel super gay.
     
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    Romantically: both pretty equal
    Just physically: more towards girls
     
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    Well...I've had my biggest crushes on girls, and I can see myself marrying a girl, but I'm attracted to guys, too! But, like, not sexually. I find guys handsome and physically attractive, and I find myself drawn to their masculinity (and I find them adorably awkward sometimes). But girls are pretty, and sweet, and I like how I can connect with them. I feel more comfortable around guys, though, probably because I'm not as attracted to them. Ugh it's a mess, though. I say I'm 'lesbian ish' only because I would prefer to have a girlfriend right now, but that doesn't mean I'm not into guys as well. SEXUALITIES ARE HARD, MAN.
     
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    I'm attracted to personalities and emotional connection.
     
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    No truer words have ever been spoken...
     
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    My thoughts a little while back were that I'm 50/50. But lately I find myself slightly leaning towards guys.
     
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    I would say that I am more sexually attracted to males (although I have yet to have a sexual experience), but I have experienced more frequent romantic attraction to females. My current situation has convinced me that I become more intensely attracted to males than females in both ways. I do find guys more physically attractive overall, but I think that a girl's face can be more aesthetically pleasing than a guy's in some cases. That probably came across weirder than I intended...In any case, if I were to choose, I would say that I have a moderate preference for guys.
     
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    I think that my attraction to women is stronger than to men but I am too afraid of relationships/intimacy with women so I've sort of repressed the attraction I have towards women. Being in a relationship makes it a bit easier too, since I don't need to worry about other people I find attractive anymore.
     
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    yes, I lean more towards girls but my attraction to guys is growing (most likely because I'm getting more secure about my self but IDK)
     
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    lol
     
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    I prefer girls right now. Mainly because I never dated one before and it's going to be exciting to actually start dating girls! However, I do see myself definitely marrying a girl in the end instead of a guy!
    I only find guys romantically attractive but I can never see myself ever having sex with a guy!
     
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    Yes and it's only for boys! :slight_smile:
     
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    Men for sure. Less awkward when trying to figure out how to talk to them (I know I shouldn't be weird when talking to women, they're just people but damn my stupid boy brain makes it weird every time), more straight-forward. In all honesty, I feel like if I dated a woman, I'd probably constantly be wondering what I was missing out on with men but I don't feel the same way in regards to dating men (just that I end up with a partner who isn't a jerk).
     
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    Not anymore :slight_smile: Back when I first realised I wasn't straight, I moved between preferred genders, but a few years on, I've settled down to a fairly even balance
     
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    Pretty sure I prefer girls, although who the hell knows eh!
     
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    I prefer the particular man I'm with right now. But, if we weren't together, I'd definitely prefer women or, more so, someone outside the binary.
     
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    Guys, so much that I identify as Gay rather than bi.
     
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    Right now, girls. There's not nearly AS MUCH desire towards guys, but it's still there, just more faint now. If you asked me this same question LAST month though, the answer would have been pretty much reversed.

    Some I'm REALLY fluid. Not sure if that's because this is still all relatively new to me and I'll settle in to a permanent preference(or 50/50), or if that's just how it is and I better get used to it.
     
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    Assuming that I'm bi as well (it's complicated), I do usually have a preference. It's rarely ever 50/50 and it fluctuates, in the past it was a stronger preference for women, right now it might actually be a stronger preference for men. I'm still trying to figure out my feelings for men though. Honestly, sometimes it can be hard to tell. Bottom line is, what's pretty solid is that basically I think I could be happy in a relationship with anyone of any gender, as long as we're compatible and all that.
     
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