Bisexuals, do you have a preference?

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  1. QueerTransEnby

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    I like guys in higher intensity and frequency. I'll never rule out women, but it would have to be an open-minded one that is fine with me being bi. I would prefer a woman who is bi actually if it gets there.

    When I say guys, I would also include trans men. :slight_smile:
     
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    So far, I've only seen myself romantically attracted to girls, but I can feel sexual attraction to both genders. I lean a lot more towards girls than guys though.
     
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    Yes! For men only.
     
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    Since I've never been a relationship or even dated...I'll have to go by feelings alone:

    Romantically I'm more attracted towards guys .

    Sexually I'm more something closer to Asexual, or atleast Demisexual.
     
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    Suuuuuper hard question. I think I really love a woman's body, and definitely more emotionally attached to women.. But there is something in the strength of a man.. The protective kind of way they have. Ofc also I'm a bit more in love with a man's sharp edges.. Which leads me to classify my ideal type as follows:

    Androgyne female, boyish hair.. Lean almost feminine build
    Personality wise: I like a man's cold nature, its kind of sexy.. But a woman's depth and care.
     
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    I recently discovered that pan fits me better. For most of my life, I considered myself bi. Though, I don't care for labels, having a description for, what I've always known myself to be, but, didn't have the term for, can be quite enlightening.

    I can be intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, romantically, physically interested in, attracted to & fulfilled by all manner of people, regardless of orientation or gender identity. I am married (to a man), we're best friends & have been together 18 years, so, I tend to focus more on women. I still make connections with men, at various levels, just not sexual.
     
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    Yessss, I tend to have a preference for girls generally but personality comes first. Sometimes I think I'm completely gay even and then I'm thinking, well... maybe I'm not so bisexual :/

    (Usually: Cue very attractive guy walking past)

    :eusa_doh: Nope, I'm still bisexual. Actually, today was one of those days :rolle: I don't know... It seems up and down tbh, but attractive people are attractive and people with nice personalities are attractive^^

    Actually, I'm not really attracted to that many people. And guys it's just a fair bit more rare.

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    Ohh, this is very true. But in which case I wouldn't know how to answer... Because there are so many genders... I would definitely date someone who was non-binary. It would feel strange to say I would be more/less attracted to non-binary people though, because that feels... wrong? Personally, it would just be like any other attraction, I think... I guess it's also kind of wrong to assume "bisexual" means attracted to males & females too when it really only means attracted to two different genders or more, so there's that too....
     
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    Yes, both at the same time.
     
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    Romantically, I'm equally attracted to both. Sexually, my preference lies with the opposite sex. I'm not sexually experienced with the same sex yet, so I can't really say whether I'd like it more, or less. But for now, I prefer men sexually.
     
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    As panromantic, I guess my preference is more towards girls.
     
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    I prefer kind, fun, intelligent and well cultured people. If you mean gender though, then no, I have no preferance to the gender of the person.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    I find people whose appearance is in the androgynous to feminine range more pleasant to look at, but masculine and trans-masculine people seem on average easier for me to talk to and befriend.

    I don't care about parts, being generally pretty meh about all the options there.
     
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    Eh, depends on the day.
     
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    At the moment, my preference is guys but I can feel myself very slowly edging towards girls but I'm still not sure. I can definitely see myself with a woman in the future and marrying her, but same with men but I am still iffy when it comes to thinking about sex with women but I think that's partially because subconsciously, I still feel that it's wrong and weird, also I'm a bit clueless when it comes to lesbian sex?
    I think my preferences will change cuz I am still really young :slight_smile:
     
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    Sexually, I don't have a preference at all.

    There are however, some days where I would prefer certain gender traits in a partner. It just depends on how I'm feeling :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    As I was coming to terms with it I thought I was mostly into guys with a sexual liking for women too.

    Now that it's been a few months since I accepted it, I feel like I'm more into women, on a sexual and emotional level. I've never been with a woman though, and it's hard to know where I just prefer woman right now because I've gone the last 19 years not seeing them as an option.
     
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    I'm definitely more attracted to women physically. But romantically I'm about 50/50.
     
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    Genderwise, I prefer women, but I also like softer men~ (and the occasional badass from any camp, haha)~ XD;;;;
     
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    strong women make my knees go weak
     
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