I'm more attracted to women after coming out as bi????

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  1. grungeteen

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    Is it weird that ever since I have accepted myself as bisexual (as well as come out to close friends) my attraction of/for/ to women has increased? I was never really bothered with finding or wanting a girlfriend before but now suddenly (in the matter of a week or so) I really want one right after coming out? Is that normal?
     
  2. castheking

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    I'd say it's normal, because it's all kind of a new thing. You know that you like girls now, so you want to experience that. Of course, bisexual people can have preferences, so it might just be that, too. I'm kind of in the same situation, I do like girls a lot more (I was born as one) but I can't really be sure if it's just because it's relatively new to me or if it's just a preference.
     
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    Me toooooo
     
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    I believe that's very normal, yes. It's like trying a new restaurant and suddenly that's your new favorite restaurant.
     
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    Yes, it is completely normal. Everyone is on a scale. Some are more gay than others but not 100% gay, and some are more straight than others but not 100% straight. You could definitely be bisexual but have a big preference for girls (this is kind of how I feel so I understand where you're coming from). (*hug*)
     
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    It's completely normal. I say that you like the whole confident thing about them. If they are out, they will not worry or bother if someone sees them or know, which is very unpleasing and unatractive. You like confident, truthful women.
     
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    The same here...