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When you're "checking someone out" what r u MENTALLY doing 2 them?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SonicBoom, Jul 20, 2015.

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When you're "checking someone out" what r u MENTALLY doing 2 them?

  1. Something SEXUAL

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  2. Something NON-SEXUAL

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  1. QueerTransEnby

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    I choose honesty over lying, and I would be totally cool with that if I was hot. That's just me though.
     
    #41 QueerTransEnby, Jul 20, 2015
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    Before I was with my girlfriend, I used to check her out, a lot.
    Mostly I was just telling her how hot or beautiful she was in her outfit, and kissing her lips. Or running up to her and giving her a big hug while visibly fangirling over her adorable smile and calling her cute names.
     
    #42 loveislove01, Jul 20, 2015
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    Not usually, especially If it's some random guy on the streets. I just think "Oh, he's hot/attractive/cute" and move on. I don't fantasize about someone who is't a celeb or adult star because it's awkward. Like I had a roommate at camp who I thought was pretty attractive, had one dirty thought and stopped because it felt awkward.

    HOWEVER, this past few weeks I had a teaching assistant in my class where almost every time I saw him I had sexual thoughts. It wasn't hardcore though and it was always brief, I mean I had better things to do, so if I saw him getting water and I was checking him out I would fantasize about getting down and dirty for five seconds before continuing on with life.
     
    #43 MrSecret, Jul 20, 2015
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    Very interesting thread and interesting replies.

    Thank you everyone for your responses.

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    #44 SonicBoom, Jul 20, 2015
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    Aw i'm the same for sure! Especially if she seems somewhat shy! ♥
     
    #45 ChloeKiss, Jul 20, 2015
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    When I'm checking someone out, it's usually a woman with a full, round, curvy butt. I'm not paying attention to anything else about her. Just appreciating her lusciousness. If I see someone from the front first, I'd probably be thinking about what it would be like if I had the opportunity to get to know them. Strong intellectual & emotional connections are important to me.
     
    #46 GypsyButterfly, Jul 20, 2015
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    so. True.
     
    #47 bookandquill, Jul 20, 2015
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    Holy crap, this is me. Like if I really like someone I want to cuddle them. And it doesn't have to be crushes, most of it is because of personality. I'm a touchy feely person, so I like skin contact, now that I'm older and my mom doesn't give me back rubs and such I'm a little deprived, so I sometimes just want to grab someone and snuggle in bed or give them a massage.

    But it HAS to be someone I like, usually personality wise but if they look good then it's a bonus.
     
    #48 MrSecret, Jul 20, 2015
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    Usually nothing. Lol!
     
    #49 PlantSoul, Jul 20, 2015
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    I rate them based on body, butt, bulge, and face. He then gets a score from one to twenty.
     
    #50 Hobbes, Jul 20, 2015
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    It's a mix between sexual and non-sexual. I imagine everything, from hand holding and cuddling to sex and everything in-between. Basically, just being close to them on an emotional as well as physical level. Most of the time though, I think they're out of my league and I just move on... :dry:
     
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    ok I admit I would be mentally undressing them and maybe other stuff :slight_smile:
     
    #52 awdru15, Jul 21, 2015
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    rather not go into the pervy details :lol:

    I also imagine what I think they would be like to talk and stuff obviously :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #53 Solitaire, Jul 21, 2015
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    I have the same answer with ChloeKiss. It is very hypocritical if I would say I dont check out guy's body and imagining doing things on it. But most of the time I would check a guy out and think if he would be a big or little spoon when we cuddle OR if a French kiss or a smack for our first kiss :grin:

    Though I sometimes caught myself checking out girls boobs and butt and legs but I dont feel anything... like nothing at all. No sex nor kissing nor cuddling.
     
    #54 LakanLunti, Jul 21, 2015
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    I'm thinking that they're pretty, not about doing anything to them.
     
    #55 Maddy, Jul 21, 2015
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    Smacking that ass and burying my face in that booty. I love ass.
     
    #56 CandyKing, Jul 21, 2015
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    I'm the same way.
     
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    LOL!

    He wins the thread.
     
    #58 Kaiser, Jul 21, 2015
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    Mostly hugging.

    Though, now I feel weird about what people might have been imagining me doing :S
     
    #59 RainbowGreen, Jul 21, 2015
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    Depends. If it's a stranger, nothing. If it's someone I have a crush on, mostly cuddling and kissing (that said, I haven't had a crush on someone in years maybe it'd be different now that I'm older). If it's a fictional character... cuddling, kissing and plenty of kinky things. :lol:
     
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