Hi! I'm a new member to this site hoping to talk with other bisexual men or bi curious men. That have not come out or they have come out to only a couple of people and maybe make some new online friends. About me I'm 44 years old and my female partner and I have been married for 21 years. I've been also attracted to other guys from an early age and played around with other boys when I was a teenager. I met my wife when I was 19 years old fell in love and got married and we had my son that is now 21 years old. But all along I still had my attraction for males I tried to hide it and forget about it. I got real depressed and even got ulcers over it thinking there is something wrong with me. I came out to my wife this last fall and told her about all of it. She told me that she loved me and I told her I love her very much. My wife takes me being bisexual better then I do she is a very open minded person and thinks all people should be treated equal. I sometimes tell her that I'm a freak and there is something wrong with me and she tells me to never use that word again. I don't have very many friends because I am always afraid of what people think. My partner found this site and asked me to join it hoping I could talk to other like minded people and maybe not feel alone thanks Jamesl.
Hi James! Welcome to EC.:smilewave I'm not bi so I'm probably not who you're looking for, but I know how it feels not to make friends due to being insecure about your sexuality. But don't ever call yourself a freak, or feel ashamed of who you are. There's nothing wrong with feeling an attraction to people of the same sex. =3 So yeah, I'm here if you ever want to talk.
Hi James.... Firstly, welcome to EC. It's a good place to be. Read your post here. Being bi, and also married, you and I are in a very similar situation. You are not alone, and I would like to send you a friend request. I hope we can share and discuss thoughts and views. I don't have very many friends because I am always afraid of what people think. Well, you've got one more now. (*hug*)
Hi confuseddreamer thanks for the friend request. I am also a very busy person between work , working out and home life. I am also having problems with trying to learn how this site works hope to talk soon thanks Jamesl.