How do you guys feel about kissing on the first date?

I only kiss on the first date when it feels right.

I always sense if a date likes me, and when I feel a connnection (meaning if there arent awkward silences and u get along like u've known each other for years)
I'm willing to take my risk (although I'm mostly the one who waits for the other person to make a move). most of the time u "feel" this when the other person wants this too by getting some hints maybe touching your hand "accidentely' and stuff

 

I don't mind.

 

My gf and I kissed our first date. The other girl I kissed was also before much involvement. Now as for sex, no.

 

i agree it would depend on how the date went. I have had several dates before meeting my partner & will admit I have done more than just kiss on a a first date

 

Aww! I'm all for hugging

 

Same, but for guys .

 

I probably wouldn't, even if the date turned out fine. I'd like some more time knowing the other person before doing that.

 

I have never kissed on the first, date, but that is only because of lack of chemistry. I see nothing wrong with kissing on a first date, if the chemistry and attraction are there.

 

I think It's kind of disgusting actually. I'm more conservative, so I don't want to even kiss someone unless they give me the girlfriend title first (however, it can be there for three seconds, as long as It's there).

Then again, I'm a demisexual/romantic person who can not be attracted to anyone I haven't known for years and years, therefore It's not going to feel the same as the rest of you who actually -can- be attracted to people you date. I just 'date' to get to know someone but I always have zero attraction to the people involved.

 

I'd honestly never thought about it til now, but I guess I pretty much always kiss on the first date. I think that's mostly to do with the fact that I tend to date people I've already been friends with for a while, so we already know each other really well. I think I've actually only been on one real official "first date", where we hadn't known each other for at least a few months.

I've also had sex on a "first date" too, but with the same circumstances as above. If there's been mutual attraction for months or even years and you're finally acting on it, I don't really think of it the same way as if it was somebody I was meeting for the first time.

I'm about as laid back as you can get about that sort of stuff though (not necessarily for me, but just in general), so I don't see anything wrong with doing as much or as little as you and your partner want on a first date. Nobody else's opinion should matter.

 

Absolutely not, kissing is second and third date material

 

Either way. I both have and haven't. If the other person goes for it and I like him, I'm not going to stop it from happening.

That said, thinking about it, I've never initiated a first kiss.

 

I don't see kissing as that big a deal. Hell, I've kissed within minutes of meeting the person. I'd go a step further and say that kissing is so important a sign of affection, if I don't like the way someone kisses, all possibility of a relationship goes out the window.

Now, for dates, the appropriateness depends on what kind of kissing. It goes without saying that a chaste peck or even a soft prolonged kiss is vastly different from sucking face.

 

I'd probably be nervous about kissing. I'm never good with interacting. :/

 

Hmm I thought most people would be into kissing on the first date. If people do one night stands then why wouldn't they be against kiss on the first date?
For me yes I would if I really like the person.

 

I wouldn't do it, but if you want to and the other person is comfortable with it as well, go ahead!

 

do what you want, what you want with my body

Hell, I'd do any number of things on a first date, if it felt right.

 

Well I've never dated before, I wouldn't be against kissing on the first date admittedly.