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Son looking at gay animal cartoon porn

Discussion in 'For Parents and Family Members of LGBT People' started by Checkmate28, Jun 23, 2015.

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  1. C06122014

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    Umm I think you have nothing to worry about every boy his age watches porn, what kind of porn he watches doesn't really matter but I do think there's a name for people who watch that kind of porn? I think it's fluffy? Or furry? (thank you All time 10's :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:) don't worry so much but don't talk to him about it just yet, as it could push him further away, as someone already said if it's a phase you have nothing to worry about if it becomes an obsession then you should talk to him.
    Best of luck :thumbsup:
     
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    As fetish-sub-sections of the gay community go, furry is pretty mild as far as I can tell.
     
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    Not exactly...

    Actually not at all.
     
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    I have... Ehem... Probably have encountered every single type of porn community in my travels. Furries are a bit strange, but overall a pretty harmless fetish. They do get made fun of a lot, and have a bit of a reputation for being "perverts" but these accusations are usually unfounded. It's a fandom just like any other, and although it may seem strange and unorthodox, I can safely say you have nothing to worry about. Just make sure you're son understands the dangers of sex, wears protection, and everything should be fine!
     
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    As someone the same age who looks at similar material, first thing I would do is not confront him about it! (Of course I'd say that).

    I can say from first hand experience that it has nothing to do with sexual attraction to animals. It's a fetish like any other, and a lot of people (me included) found themselves wound into the furry community because it's such an open space. It's an environment where you can be yourself and express yourself without worrying, and that's likely what drew your son in. The porn kind of came later.

    I have a normal healthy life otherwise, it doesn't effect my relationships or anything like that. What porn he looks at should stay his business (within reason of course).

    I'd say don't worry about it.
     
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    I agree that most people who are into the furry thing probably aren't actually sexually attracted to animals. And well even if a small percentage of them were/are that wouldn't mean that it would be your son’s motivation, reasoning for exploring it. What’s more even if it were his motivation, reason for exploring it, well I think it’s a lot a lot better for two people who are into animals to dress up as animals and have sex with each other than it would be for them to not dress up as animals and be out having sex with real animals.

    As long as the people involved are all adults and no one is hurting anyone, I don’t think there is any real harm in it. So far as fetishes go, this is one is actually pretty tame. Though in fairness, I would probably prefer it if my sons had no kinks, twists and bends to their sexuality at all, well of all the polymorphous perverse things they could be out there doing with their young minds, bodies, lives and selves this ranks pretty low on my list of things to worry about.

    I mean for example I’d much rather have my sons be furries, even be furries for all the “wrong” reasons than say out there having conventional sex with another man’s wife behind their supposed best friend’s back, or out there running around impregnating women without care, worry, concern or regard for the new lives they are helping to create. Better to be a little kinky with morals than completely vanilla but amoral as all get out is what I think.
     
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    He's probably just watching it for the shock value of it. I doubt he's really into animals or anything like that, especially since its that cartoon/anime stuff.
     
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    Agreeing with above posts

    There's some pretty 'strange' porn online, and cartoon animals really isn't that bad. In fact, from what I've seen it's actually a pretty big fetish for some people. I see drawings of it quite a lot of the time on websites like tumblr. A lot of the time I see them drawn with human faces and features too.

    Stuff like this isn't for me but I would say don't worry or confront him about it yet. If you see it start taking over his daily life or something then maybe talk to him about it, but right now I don't think you should worry. But it's entirely your choice whether you choose to confront him :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello,

    Thanks for the answers, but the thread is a few months old and the OP hasn't logged on in some time.

    If any of you have any more questions, feel free to create a new thread about the topic, but this personal case should be resolved now.
     
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