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What's the appeal of nudes?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MrSecret, Jun 19, 2015.

  1. MrSecret

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    All the time I see things like "I'll send you nudes if you send me some" or "Did you send her the dick-pic yet?" among other things similar.

    I don't get it. Like I'm assuming it's a turn-on, but I don't really see it. Like if I see a picture of a naked guy I'll be like "Cool, nice face" and move on. But if I see a shirtless guy in boxer-briefs or pants I'll be like "LET ME LOVE YOUUUUU!" The tease turns me on more than the actual reveal.

    Does anyone get turned on by nudes? And if so, why? Because I find it kinda boring and lame (Sorry to anyone who thinks it's hot)
     
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    I don't think genitalia are very nice visual things to look at (I'd rather just stick with touch), they're actually kind of ugly IMO. So I don't see the appeal of nudes either.
     
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    I can not stand nudes.
     
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    I don't know about you guys but I love looking at mens junk. :lol: I love it when I'm in a public place and there's no walls between the urinals I mean holy hell that's hot!
     
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    I think it's how teenagers have sex. (Most people at my school send nudes) They want to be very intimate with their partner, but sex is out of the question, or they don't have anywhere to do that.
     
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    It's not like there are millions of nudes online. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I love looking at nude men, their junk in the trunk is so sexy. I like it a lot, I also like boxer briefs and guys wearing underwear more cause it's like "You so hot boy show me that sexy body" I think of the junk as sexy but it's moreso indefinitely super sex thoughts like, "Do me" to a nude picture of a hot boy.
     
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    I know that for long distance it's kind of like a teasing thing, it's kind of like "you can look but can't touch" which tends to drive people wild. Also some people are very visual so getting sent a nude pic from their boyfriend/girlfriend is VERY hot to them.
    (Obviously I think it's hot).
     
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    I get more turned on if they're almost nudes and not entirely undressed. In person, I get intensely turned on if it's someone I have the hots for being totally naked, otherwise I'd just be weirded out or feel indifference. Anyway, I don't ask for nudes as well. I just think it's too risky for me, I'd rather skydive.
     
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    I just LOVE the male body. So seeing one naked is super sexy to me. It turns me on and cant stop looking at a males body especially if they are naked :lol:
     
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    I really only like it if it's my partner. I do have a weakness for full, round, curvy butts on women & will sometimes check those out online. When it comes to porn, it's more the act (whatever that might be) I enjoy, rather than, the people involved. I don't care for some random chick or dude trying to show me anything. I'd rather not even see someone's face, until, I've gotten to know them better. There's people that I've been interacting with on forums for years & many of them, I have no idea what they look like.
     
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    For me, it depends on the person and if I take an interest in them. I don't want to see them nude because it's a bit awkward for me but I do like to see them in lingerie (depending on the body type).
     
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    They have to be done with style or else they probably do nothing for me.
     
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    I love semi-nudes because the teasing can inspire very sexy thoughts.
    Nudes are just anti-climatic and are almost always the end in an app.
     
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    I prefer nudes, and I swear it's not because I just like ogling their junk. I am just against body-shame, and I see nudity, in either sex, as a sex-positive statement. I think that shaming people, for their bodies, is evil. I also think it's evil to assume that someone has an immediate interest in sex just because they are showing more skin: maybe they just like to feel liberated and natural, which is why I'm partial to going to places out in the wilderness and curling up naked on a rock to just sort of breathe in the world around me, just feeling that I am honoring the dignity of my natural form and how I was made.

    I don't like sexually focused dick-pics, though, and I don't even like pictures of guys in tight-fitting jeans focusing on their obvious erections showing through the trouser. I don't resent them, either, but then again, I wouldn't resent a picture of a man's armpit, either. It's just a weird thing to focus on. Why the fuck should I care? Yeah, it's a dick. I've got one, too. It's not huge, but it's not small. It's cut, and I like it that way; however, I wouldn't change it if it were not cut. I will stand up for my dick because it's always stood up for me: it's perfect the way it is. But why the fuck should I care about the damn penis of some guy I don't know? Let me see your face. It's eyes that I fall in love with. If you're just showing your penis, then you're telling me a little too much about why you're really interested in me.

    And the "Oops! How did that get there?" story is kind of sad. I think, "dude, when you had the dick pic with several other pictures of you, including your face, it's not that I didn't take notice of it. Yes, it's a nice penis. I sort of liked it when it was in the context of several shots of the rest of your gorgeous body. However, the ploy to try to draw attention to it by pretending it was an accident kind of makes me shake my head and wonder why I bother being gay." Men.

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    For that matter, in nudes of myself, I don't even think I've ever posed in such a way as to draw attention to my dick. I have rarely attempted to hide it consciously, but the occasions on which it actually shows has it sort of in shadow, and I only remember a few times that I've shown myself lounging in a cat-like pose showing a hard-on while in a disinhibited and playful pose that put it into context with the rest of my body and how I was feeling.
     
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    I agree with some people here. I am much more turned on seeing a sexy guy in nice underwear than naked. Its more rare that I'll find a naked picture all that attractive, but some guys are hot enough that I'll still enjoy it.

    Now, sometimes people send me pictures of just their penis and my response is usually "cool...." (Though I usually ignore it). Penises don't do much for me.... Butts though... :slight_smile:
     
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    I like shirtless pictures, especially if the guy has nice muscles, but I don't really care for completely nude pictures...
     
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    The appeal to me is.. CUTE WOMEN NAKED OMG.. I love boobs so much.. I'm like the biggest worshiper of the female body! But I just think women look cute naked.. I think it's even cuter if they wear like a long baggy shirt with underwear on and walk around like that with their hair up in a bun. Like a cute little artistic woman! And then when they look at you with that innocent look. SO CUTE!!!

    Girlcrazy lesbian out.
     
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    yes, but not of someone I'd be trying to date. what I mean of course, is just because someone sends you a nude picture, it doesn't mean it's of the person you're actually talking to. also, if someone is that willing to show themselves that way so easily, I doubt anything serious would come of it.
     
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    Nudes are awesome to receive when you're dating someone, talking to someone or have an interest in someone. You have to be careful sending them to me though... If you do it too soon, I'll just assume that you're a piece of ass. Better put a condom on your heart, because I'm about to fuck your feelings.

    What I don't understand is why people are interested in receiving nudes from random girls. If you want to see a pair of titties that badly, the internet is a beautiful place.