How would you feel if someone "went gay" for you?

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  1. joshy the queen

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    I would feel so flattered and happy ^_^ oh how romantic hehehe
     
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    You like who you like, you love who you love, who cares if they identify as straight, it's just a label, word.

    About everyone have that person they would go straight/gay for.
     
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    First of all, I don't believe in the concept of "going gay." They're already bi/pan/demi/gay or some other sexuality besides straight. Maybe they didn't even realize it. Maybe they did and they just haven't wanted a same-sex relationship before. That doesn't change who they are.

    I "went gay" for my girlfriend. She's not the first woman I've been attracted to, although I didn't realize that until after we started dating. She is the first person I came out to. That doesn't make the feelings any less real.
     
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    I really wouldn't trust a person that would change their sexuality for me.

    I don't believe in that. o_o

    I probably sound like an assh*le, sorry.
     
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    I would be like super flattered, and I would probably faint at the declaration of this straight boy going gay for me. After that first reaction I would be like "For little me you'd go gay," so count surprise into my reaction. It would be a plethora of emotion. So many emotions would come into play.
     
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    I'd most likely assume the person is bi...

    if it was someone I was attracted to then maybe I'd ask them out!!?

    At the very least, I'd be flattered.
     
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    Basically this. I would be fine with the Straight Friend of mine who I have a Crush on Going Gay for Me. I would actually be flattered to that he would go gay for me.
     
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    I don't think that's possible unless deep down inside they have gay tendencies.
     
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    Probably flattered, but would just think it's a joke
     
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    I'd probably be insulted since this kind of thing just ends badly. I don't want to be anyone's 'exception'.
     
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    "Are you feeling alright?"
     
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    Thanks, guys! (*hug*)
     
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    You don't seem like an a**. :3 (*hug*) Just cautious
     
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    I'd tell them I'll go "straight" despite whatever may happen just to mess with them. It's a jab at their ridiculousness. I wouldn't want to show how freaking flattered I am inside.

    ---------- Post added 19th Jun 2015 at 06:55 PM ----------

    Don't pull a Dahmer. :grin:
     
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    I used to be really lonely and it made me sad when my friends would say stuff like that because I knew they didn't mean it really. Now I don't think it would bother me so much but after dating someone who made me think she was gay and then it wasn't true, I just don't think I'm willing to go through that again.
     
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    I've had several people my age say they'd "go gay for me" but in truth, the only ones who've ever actually fell for me had some sorta feelings like that from the beginning, even if they weren't fully awakened. X_X My lesbian friend has a crush on me... is she going STRAIGHT for me? *gasp*