Anyone else get crushes really easily?

not really just fake boys (anime boys)

 

Sadly, It takes multiple encounters with that person before it develops into a crush

 

Ahh, rarely... I mean, lots of crushes on fictional characters but people in real life? Nah. Sure, I see ladies that I think are attractive all the time but that's it... The last genuine crush I had was years ago tbh, lol.

 

I do. Most go away quickly However I currently have a crush on this guy. I have had a crush on him for almost a year now.

 

Yes! Very easily

 

I don't know - I don't really have a good idea of what is considered "average." I'd say I probably get a new one every six months or so.


I probably would get them a lot more easily if I didn't fight it, too.

 

Yeah but it goes away easily as well but it depends if it's someone I knew for so long.

 

Though there are exceptions, not as a rule. I can find someone attractive but to get a full-on crush I need to observe them a while. I have been known to suddenly become attracted when they say or do something, after sometime has passed without any clear previous indication that I liked them in that way. Once the crush is there though, it's pretty strong.

 

When looking in the mirror, I do!

To be more serious, we'd have to define crush. Some folks I'm interested in, some I'm fascinated by, and others, well, they've got a few strings embedded within me.

Being interested in or fascinated by doesn't necessarily mean a crush, but it could develop into one. So, if you capture my attention, you have a good chance.

But what really lets me know when I have crush, is this:

 

Crush (walking towards me)
Me (internal monologue) - Look at her, here she comes, here she comes... Oh, my, what the fuck is wrong with me, I feel like I'm having a heart attack or something, why does she have to be this damn cute, why do I have to be so childish about such things, is not like she is perfect... Well,shut up, she damned IS perfect, or are you arguing with me about that body, that smile and that adorableness? She is perfect, and she would feel even more perfect inside my arms 'cause...
Her (finally there, recognized me) Oh, HAI!
Me (dropping the coffee, the newspaper, and having a cough attack, with tiny voice) ... Hi... Yes, hallo, I meant... Wasn't it clear what I meant? I think I meant it well, you know...
Her- What? Sorry, I didn't get that, you always whispering...
Me- I SAID THANKS GOD IT's FRIDAY
Her- But... It's not friday.
Me- Let me dream, I need to dream right now...
Her- LOL

This happens way too often, however doesn't last long 'cause I test the waters as soon as I can.
Needless to say, the waters are usually icy cold...

 

Yes. I've been developing crushes since I was 11 or 12 years old. It got even more intense when I was 14 or 15. I usually have too many crushes during manic episodes.

The vast majority of my crushes are shallow (and by shallow I mean I'd want to throw the person out of a window afterwards) and it ends after around a week or if I discover they're a jerk. It even happens with fictional characters!

 

what he said

 

I find a lot of guys attractive, physically, as my tastes vary, but there's a lot more than that required for me to actually have a "crush." I don't get them too often, especially on people I can't have... I get over those people pretty quick.