I've been like this since I was ten years old. At first I thought it was because I was eager to start developing and I was just comparing my progress. I've already gone through puberty and I still stare at boobs too much. It doesn't even matter whether I find her attractive. She could be fat and ugly, but since her boobs are huge I still look at them. Even have that problem with my own family members. Makes me feel like a huge pervert even though I know I'm not into incest. It's sometimes impossible for me not to look at them. I used to avoid even looking at women to avoid being caught looking. I notice that I stare at boobs less if I masturbate a lot. I also seem to stare at them more if I'm having more anxiety. I also rarely feel sexually attracted to people. Why would I be so boob crazy?
Oh my gosh I'm the exact same way. I've always found myself staring at peoples' boobs a lot, even as far back as second grade! Like you, I at first thought it was because I was curious what it would be like to have boobs when I was young, but once I started questioning my sexuality later on I was like "wait a minute..." I also find it weird since I'm rarely sexually attracted to people and I still don't even know for sure if I'm into girls or not, but I can't stop staring at peoples' boobs! I guess they're just fun to look at? It's weird because I've never looked at a person's boobs and thought "Hmm I wish I could feel their boobs" so I don't know it's weird. I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of. I mean, you can't help what you're into and even if it happens with family members sometimes, I think it's just because it's a habit and you're not even thinking about them sexually. I mean, it would be one thing if you were staring at your mom's boobs to get turned on, but that's clearly not the case here.
I think its a psychological thing because I kinda did something similar for a while...for example...don't think of white elephants...what do you think of....see my drift. I know that for example, whenever I take a test in class, I always sit far away as possible from everyone else just because I am fearful of being accused of cheating and because I think about it so much, I think my eyes sometimes tend to move around or twitch a bit which makes me think that someone may think im cheating even though I would never do that and have never done that. I think the same applies here. You know its rude to do that and you know you don't want to but for some reason, your fearful someone might catch you doing that because simply you have the ability to that and therefore, it's hard to control your eyes when the taboo is right in front of you lol (not that boobs are bad at all lol, just using this as an example in which staring at boobs is bad) Anyway, I think you need to train yourself to relax and not think about that as much and when it comes up to your mind, try to dismiss it but don't try too hard to dismiss it or you will just be thinking about it anyway lol. It'll take some time but just try to be an active listener in conversation and be natural and this should go away Good luck!
Well boobs are great, I also stare at them. I don't understand why I stare at them so much, but I enjoy it so there's that.
I stare at boobs sometimes But dont find them attractive just apprecite them I can tell what type of bra the girl is wearing sometimes and i like that they move during walking sometimes though i never stared in an obvious way or directly its rude and would make girls think in a bad way about me as im a guy and mostly my acting is pretty femme they connect me with being gay and we always do the from heads to toes mean look lol so if a gay guy stared at their boobs for long they would think they are not alright too small or too big etc..so i wont stare directly to keep their feelings safe
Because they're fricking beautiful! Seriously though, what you described sounds a little like social anxiety to me. I say this because its really common for eye contact to feel intimidating/uncomfortable when you're feeling socially anxious. Looking at something else, particularly looking downwards, is an avoidance of that feeling. You need to work on being assertive and feeling comfortable in your own skin. Try to focus on what a person is saying, really hear them and be involved mentally in the conversation. Keep your head up! Practice making eye contact. It will probably take some time, so get to it by practicing communicating with people. You really don't want people thinking you're looking at their boobs when it's not appropriate, it could make them uncomfortable
Um well how can you not? I mean look at them there so hot and oh god I just mmm yea they're just so awesome!
It's kind of weird because I don't intentionally look at them, but it's kind of hard to help it if someone wears a low cut shirt. For whatever reason, both of my counselors do. I find it distracting. Then, I worry that they think I am checking them out being I am bi. But I am more of a butt guy for guys and girls, but I love the penis and sometimes the female crotch too.
Don't say that, I'm sure you have fantastic manboobs. When you are talking to someone with big boobs they are often right in front of your face and it is hard not to stare. To avoid staring, I often don't let myself look away from the girl's eyes. However, sometimes I am so focused on looking at her eyes not her boobs that I forget what I am talking about and just end up staring into her eyes and making a weird face. It is a struggle. :icon_sad:
