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Are you Dominant, Submissive, or in between?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Taly, May 31, 2015.

  1. Taly

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    Sorry if this type of thread has been created, I haven't seen one like this.

    Anywho, the title is self-explanatory.

    I haven't really had a lot of dating experience and stuff, but if I had to factor in my personality, my fantasies, the type of guys I'm interested in, and the dynamic of relationships I foresee myself becoming apart of.

    I am a very submissive person, it is a lot more natural to me. Unless I was in a situation where I had to rise to the occasion, and take on a dominant role.

    What about you guys? :grin:
     
  2. guitar

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    It really depends on my mood, put me down for both.
     
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    I'm me.

    Some days I'll probably be a little more giving, and others I may want to be spoiled. But I don't subscribe to just one way of doing things.

    Versatility for the win.

    However, if you take into account personality, I have the potential to take on a protector role. To enough, this would lean me into the dominant side of things, but honestly, I think everybody should be a little protective.

    I may just be weird though, LOL.
     
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    I'd say that I'm somewhere in the middle of half/half and slight preference towards dominance when it comes to relationships.
     
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    Probably the middle, but I may tip towards the dominant side. Depends on how I feel and whether I can make a good decision.
     
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    Submissive, here :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  7. Miles16

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    I SUBMIT

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  8. Justinian20

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    I am super submissive and it's a thing that doesn't completely fit with my personality. I am in personality someone who wouldn't come across as submissive, but it is entirely natural for me to be submissive. So what im really saying is that I am who I am no matter how weird all the pieces fit together.
     
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    I'm more submissive than dominant, it's just in my nature.
     
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    I'm so dominant it's kind of ridiculous. Even when I've agreed to play a more submissive role during sexual activity, I'm like, "You had better not be trying to put that where I think you're trying to put that, buddy. What are you even doing? Stop failing, do that faster."
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    Tch, men.
     
  11. Taly

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    I'm almost flattered by how quickly, and how plentiful the posts are in this thread. XD

    It's interesting, it looks and feels like there is an almost even split between submissive, dominant, and in-between people out there. O:
     
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    I'm definitely a submissive in bed, but every now and then I might like to switch it up. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I think when I'm with a woman I'd do half and half, but with a man I'd be very submissive. Just going off my thoughts rather than actual experience, of course.
     
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    In my head I'm more submissive. Not sure, when that translates to reality. If it ever happens.
     
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    I switch :wink: I like the idea of dominating and being dominated by cute/sexy women :wink: Some days I feel extremely dominant though.. Especially if a girl is smaller or more reserved/shy then me :lol: I think if a girl is more cute then hot I like to be the dom.. but it's sexy if they turn from shy good girl to miss not so innocent in the bedroom/behind closed doors :wink:

    Ahhh.. them feminine girly girls really get me going :wink:
     
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    I couldn't be dominant, with dysphoria and that. And medical stuff, and I just generally prefer the idea of receiving... Maybe if I were doing other stuff, like BDSM top/bottom stuff, I could be versatile, but not with normal stuff like that.
     
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    I don't really know, but in my head, I'm submissive. I think it stems from my very reserved and shy personality,
     
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    In between but I feel and like being a little more domininant, and like people who are slightly submissive
     
  20. MindvsHeart

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    Even though I don't feel the need or urge to engage in sexual activities, I would be more dominant. (I'm more of a gentle dom though) I think the only time I would be more acquiescent is in the beginning when I don't really know someone or their body. But after experimenting and learning all the ropes per se, I would take over after that.
    It's simple really- if I know how to make you sing, then I'm going to make you sing alot. That's where I get my pleasure.