Hey everyone! I had a weird incident last night as I was watching Je, Tu, Il, Elle. In the film the man asked for a hand job from this woman and although I didn't show the actual act the words he was saying and his facial reactions kind of turned me on. I guess I'm just wondering if a queer girl, more attracted to women emotionally and physically can enjoy an act such as giving a man a handjob. Also, I still find the idea of penetration somewhat sexy but I rarely ever find male genitalia pleasant. Do you think this is weird. I feel really confused. (Sorry if this is really explicit, I just need some help figuring things out)
There are sex toys specifically designed for women to wear to penetrate a partner. I imagine you are not alone in that desire. I'm bi, and I think I would miss that part of sex if I were with a woman, the same way I miss breasts, etc now.
I completely agree. Penetration curiosity is completely normal, especially if you are a more masculine female. I have always wanted to have a dick even from a young age. I did learn to love my womanhood, but I still wish I could have both the sexy female body vagina and all and a dick. I have always wanted to write my name in pee, but personal fantasies aside, just because the thought of a handjob makes you a bit excitable probably has less to do with the dick itself and more to do with the sexual arousal that is being experienced, by whomever, male or female.
This sounds like bisexuality. Lesbians don't crave any sex act with men regardless of what it is, and there's more than one way to have straight sex, so yeah. Nothing wrong with being bi/pan with different preferences.
^ But what if it's just fantasy? I'm sure a lot of straight women fantasize about other women but in reality they wouldn't have sex with them, which means they would still be straight.
Well fantasy usually doesn't count, I'd agree. Although the OP was talking about physically enjoying it in actuality.
I agree with this. A hand job is also a little more... comfortable, in comparison. You have more control, and for somebody who may lean towards masculine expression, this can be arousing due to the power dynamics at play. It isn't like intercourse or oral, which can be a little too intimate.
Well, I kinda always liked giving handjob to my bf. 1) I knew I was making him feel good. 2) I'm pretty good at it so I could show off my skills. 3) Sometimes it even felt as if I'm doing it to myself so it helped me to fill some void of not having that body part myself. 4) It's an activity when I didn't need to be naked and my genitals to be touched - so it was definitely a plus!
I feel like this is applicable to me. I enjoy watching straight porn where I imagine I'm the guy ejaculating inside the woman. And the pleasure the male is experience is very arousing to me, almost like I can relate to the guy in the video. I still wonder what it's like to go down on a girl though, it REALLY makes me wonder... I'm not sure if I would enjoy that in reality though.
