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How Well Do You Handle Secrets?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kaiser, May 1, 2015.

  1. TigerInATophat

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    Brilliant. :roflmao:
     
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    If I told you, I'd have to kill you.
     
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    I handle secrets like a boss. No one knows anything unless I want them too and I keep secrets really well. If someone betrays my trust, it will take months to years to earn it back.
     
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    When someone tells me a secret, it immediately just goes to the back of my head and stays there. I consider myself a pretty good secret keeper.
     
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    I'm good at keeping secrets. Although I unfortunately have run into some people who haven't :dry:
     
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    Well, my own secrets, I don't and can't keep or I get to the point of exploding. I usually tell my girlfriend, there are no secrets between us. As for keeping others secrets, I do it very well and will NEVER tell anyone, except my girlfriend sometimes, but she wouldn't ever tell anyone either.
     
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    I'm rubbish at keeping secrets of any description. Mostly because I hate lying (I am always very brutally honest) and if someone asks me about the secret, I'll just tell them.
     
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    Considering my dad is still encouraging me hooking up with girls I'd say pretty well.
     
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    A true Tinkle-ite!!!!

    :icon_wink
     
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    Tricky question. Sometimes, in a social setting, I feel compelled to speak about another person - but there is always a louder and stronger bell in my mind (I call her MORAL CONSCIENCE) that tells me to STFU. And I do.
     
  11. Rawrzilla

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    People tell me shit because I forget about it in record time. I can't possibly spill the beans if I'm not aware I have said beans.

    Funny how my blatant disregard can be so useful to others.
     
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    LOL, I get that way a lot.

    Somebody will be telling me something, and then I will ask them to repeat it cause I already forgot it, and they say "good".

    LOL
     
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    I handle secrets well because I forget most of what people say to me but when I realised that a lot of them would rely on me, I took it as an advantage so if they end up fucking me over, I can use the information they have told me and can use it against them.
     
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    EXactly the same :slight_smile:
     
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    I think I have a trusting face...Everyone shares everything with me, and yet to this day, what someone tells me in confidence remains with me. I have never nor will I ever break anyone's trust.
     
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    People tell me secrets very often. I think it's due to the fact that I'm a weak participant in conversation. The other person just starts talking about themselves and ranting and detailing all their life events, and then woops they've told me too much and I can never tell a living soul.

    And of course I don't. Telling someone else's secret is worse than spoiling the end of a book.
     
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    Very well..because I respect other people's secret and I find it very important so as much as I can I'll keep a secret no matter how small it maybe.
     
  18. MindvsHeart

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    Once you tell me a secret, it's like you just dropped a stone into a well and as you lean over to see if it hit the bottom - all you see is darkness, an ominous bottomless darkness.

    No one will hear anything from me...unless you intend to harm yourself or anyone else then I'll take necessary action. Other than that, nothing.
     
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    If someone tells me a secret and makes it clear that it is important that no one knows, I will make all of the necessary sacrifices to keep it, even if I think it would be better for everyone in the situation if I told it to someone else. I am not the greatest, most moral person ever, but I am loyal.