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"I'm Gay because I find girls complicated..."

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MotelGuy, Apr 24, 2015.

  1. MotelGuy

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    That's what a Gay porn star said during an interview...I think it's a dumb thing to say...Let's dissect this...

    First of all, Gay men are Gay because they're sexually attracted to other men, not because they find girls complicated...
    Secondly, by saying that, he's making it sound like he chose to be Gay...Gay men are born Gay, we don't choose to be Gay...
    Thirdly, finding girls complicated doesn't mean you're Gay, it most likely means that you're clueless about what women like...
    So yeah, I think it's pretty dumb of him to say that...
     
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    What? No. Perceptions of the opposite sex have nothing to do with who you're attracted to, although they can play a part. Funny how I've met gay men who find women foreign, and others who relate to them better.

    Maybe he's bisexual, and for whatever reason(s), he's decided to avoid women altogether. Misogyny isn't only for straight guys.
     
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    Most likely, this is someone who isn't fully comfortable with his sexual orientation and is, essentially, trying to justify it.
     
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    Well firstly we don't know if people are born gay; it could be a product of their environment mixed with genetic predispositions. But you're right it's not a choice. However, considering some of the recent topics where about 70% of the people here wouldn't be straight if they could, it might make someone who'd doesn't know better suspect that it is....

    But yes it's stupid. You can't just be gay because girls are "complicated." Maybe he isn't straight though. Maybe he is actually bisexual and decided to exclusively date guys, and thus call himself gay.
     
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    I find both men and women confusing as fuck, doesnt change the fact that I'm still attracted to both... :lol:
     
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    Exactly! Both are confusing! @_@
     
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    This guy doesn't realize that all straight guys find girls complicated. it's like this, a girl is crying because you are spending too much time away from her. Straight Guy answers, Why in the bloody hell is she crying. Gay guy goes to help her as he can sort of relate to the situation. Bang gay guy finds girls less complex but because he is wired to like men, he is gay.

    it's not as simple as that though. Mine is a general statement that is based off a more effeminate gay man like myself.
     
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    inb4 male/female understands another male/female better, thus superior.

    If that's the reason they want to go with, fine. Though, I'm wondering if he was being sarcastic or using dry humor. If not, well, I am disappointed.

    I know, you're thinking, why would you be disappointed in that?

    Quite simply, it's idiots like this fellow, that make me look a thousand times better in comparison.

    LOL.
     
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    Ofc gay guys are gay because they find women complicated, if, by complicated, you mean in a 'how the heck are straight guys, lesbians, bi, pan, and various nb folk attracted to them but not me?' kinda way.

    I'm with some others above who find his reasoning a bit...suspicious(ie that he sounds like there could be attraction to them that he is just tossing to the side for this reason). Not too sure how he could come to this conclusion otherwise.
     
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    But lbr girls are somewhat complicated
     
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    I find girls to be sometimes outrageously complicated/nonsensical and have on occasion gotten my gf to chuckle at her own crazy complication. Doesn't mean they don't feel the same way about guys or that I don't love 'em. <3

    Yeah the guy in the video who said that was bullshitting for the camera, we can safely assume.
     
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    It's partially dumb. Partially.

    ---------- Post added 24th Apr 2015 at 09:54 PM ----------

    I see some validity to this. To me, misogyny means a man who doesn't like all women, as in a knee jerk reaction.

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    There could be some truth to that but I disagree that it would cover all cases. I think a person could be perfectly comfortable with their sexual orientation and not want to share all the facts.

    To the OP, I could see this as being more applicable to bi guys. I was once on a ski trip during college and I was driving with some friends, we gassed up at a truck stop, and, yes, I bought a smutty magazine that had a lot of bisexual imagery and stories. I did NOT share it with "the carpool." I took it home and read it, and shared the content with some other friends. In the magazine there was a story written about a guy who went camping with a past high school buddy who was this hulky athlete and they wound up having sex. The other guy was depicted as bi and it said something like 'not having to go through the whole boring dinner and flowers routine to get laid.' Something about that resonated and I've never forgotten that magazine bought at a truck stop. That makes me wonder about truckers!
     
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    And i'm a lesbian because a guy I know likes avocado :lol: Wtf is this? That is so ridiculous! Sure I don't understand guys at all (especially gay guys, no offense) but I don't think I am a lesbian because of that! I've been a lesbian since god knows when.. I knew for sure when I was 11.
     
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    Honestly.... everyone is complicated. I find people in general to be confusing but I'm still attracted to them.

    It seems like he didn't think about what he was saying. It does leave a sour taste.
     
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    Weirdest thing I ever heard. Last I checked, straight people find the opposite sex just as 'complicated'. I hear them complain about it all the time.
     
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    This comment makes no sense. I know gay guys who get along extremely well with women & if they were straight would have a girlfriend at any given moment. Like everyone has already basically said, you're gay because of an attraction to the same sex.