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Top or Bottom?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Gymskirtboy, Apr 21, 2015.

  1. kageshiro

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    And thats great ^_^ I know that not all bottoms are that way, and its not a bad thing by any means, its just not for me, in the same way that I would get bored with someone who tops exclusively. I need my sex to be spontaneous, surprising, and a little different every time
     
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    This is definitely something that you figure out through sex itself. I always thought that I was a top or vers, not an exclusive bottom. Yet I've only ever bottomed (although I've only had sex twice). I still think that I'm vers, but that I need to just loosen up a bit (I'm still very shy about sex).
     
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    I think I would do much better as a top. Anal masturbation is just more painful than pleasurable for me (and yes, I have tried it properly). Although I've never had sex, I think I'd be fine with doing most or even all the work in bed.
     
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    I prefer topping I don't like the idea of having someone in my ass I mean I very rarely even finger myself I'd just rather be the one doing the fucking versus getting it done to me
     
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    ^^^^my kinda guy! ^^^^^:thumbsup:
     
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    I feel like I could do both, but I probably would prefer to be a bottom.
     
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    I'm a bottom bunk if we're talking about bunkbeds. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Seriously though, I'm a vers, although I feel like I would enjoy topping a bit more.
     
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    I can only seem to get off as a bottom. There is an extremely rare occurence where my fantasies are that of a top's, but I'm basically hardwired as a bottom.
     
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    If you're little, I must be tiny. I'm only about 5'7-8ish. Though I've never had sex with anyone, I prefer being the top. However, I think I can swing both ways when it comes to sex. After all, I think relationships shouldn't be solely based on your sexual preferences. (!)
     
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    I'm a top, but I don't mind being bottom.
     
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    Versatile. =)