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How much confidence do you have that one day you will find your 1 true love?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SonicBoom, Apr 17, 2015.

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How much confidence do you have that one day you will find your 1 true love?

  1. Very confident

    13 vote(s)
    16.9%
  2. Mostly confident

    16 vote(s)
    20.8%
  3. Somewhat confident

    25 vote(s)
    32.5%
  4. not at all confident.

    23 vote(s)
    29.9%
  1. Lyana

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    Voted not at all confident, but not because my outlook is that bleak. I think I'll find love, most likely several times, and maybe one of them will be forever. Maybe not. I don't really believe in a "one true love." I've been in love before and I will be again, that's all I know for sure.
     
  2. sartorious

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    i voted somewhat confident.

    the odds are against me at the moment maybe i'll end up as old grumpy bachelor, but I'll try to stay positive so i have something to look forward to in life...
     
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    Not at all. #BaelessForLife
     
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    hah not at all confident...
     
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    Like some others, I don't believe in a 'one true love' so, in regards to the thread, I vote not at all confident.

    As you'll probably notice in some other posts of mine, I'm not starved for love either; I've lived going on 23 years so far without being in a relationship or having even simply gone on a date, so what's another...what, 77?

    I feel I'm more suited for a single life.
     
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    I know that people do find one person and live with them happily enough for the remainder of their lives. Personally, in a society that values not just love, but a partnership of support in personal growth, I think that growing apart is almost inevitable. At 45 I have had 4 wonderful long relationships that ranged from 4-9 years each and there were very few regrets along the way. While I don't see those people often anymore, I still care about them. But knowing that in each coupling, we both bloomed and went back into the world even better, happier individuals is a pattern I intend to keep going.
     
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    Already done :slight_smile:

    But instead of the prince, the princess will end up making the move.
     
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    I thought I already did but I fucked it up so really, I just don't see myself "hoping" for someone and I let things flow so it's whatever.
     
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    I chose not at all because I'm really tired of finding that person. Let him/her find me.
    One way or another, we'll see each other. I just don't know when, where and how.
     
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    I thought I would be in the minority. I actually voted with the majority.

    I'm not bothered by it. I've gotten used to it.
     
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    At the moment not confident at all. My circumstances won't allow anything other than a bit on the side so to speak, and that not what I want. I tried it and it was an expensive disaster.
    I want a deep meaningful relationship full of love but thats just not possible.
     
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    Super confident. I'm positive my current one will go the distance.
     
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    Well, since I'm losing weight and becoming more physically attractive, my confidence is increasing. Right now, I'm only about .4 confidence. Hopefully I can make it to .7 confidence in a couple of months. 176 here I come? ^_^

    ~ Adrienne
     
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    yeah im pretty sure that mr.right would be one day asking me to marry him i wonder how cute understanding and nice he would be i dream about that all day feeling safe with my guy flirting with my guy making love under the stars with my guy
    oh god i cant wait to turn 25 cause i think its the best time for me to get married
     
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    Knowing how my life tends to play out with romantic endeavors, this is how I suspect it will go:

    Me: *in bed, moments away from dying*
    Soul Mate: I'm here!
    Me: Who are you?
    Soul Mate: Why, your soul mate -- your perfect match!
    Me: Really, life?! *cough, cough* Fuck you, lif--- *dies*
     
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    :lol::lol:
    i really laughed at this
    dont worry hun your love might come sooner than you think just dont worry about it :icon_wink
     
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    I had someone that I thought was my soul mate but we weren't meant to be. We thought we would last forever but sometimes things happen and you can't control fate.
     
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    Well I started online dating again and got success on my first day. The guy is 33, cute and looking for a long term relationship. Just perfect but I know not to overestimate anything and just hope for the best. I feel good about this.
     
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    It's the only thing keeping me alive