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How much confidence do you have that one day you will find your 1 true love?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SonicBoom, Apr 17, 2015.

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How much confidence do you have that one day you will find your 1 true love?

  1. Very confident

    13 vote(s)
    16.9%
  2. Mostly confident

    16 vote(s)
    20.8%
  3. Somewhat confident

    25 vote(s)
    32.5%
  4. not at all confident.

    23 vote(s)
    29.9%
  1. SonicBoom

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    Personally, I voted somewhat confident.

    I just had two successive disastrous relationship.

    I'm looking to get my feet wet in relationships again.


    How about you?





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  2. Ellzie

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    Eh. I'm getting up there in age (okay, 27 is not necessarily old, but I wanted to be married with kids by 26) so I'm starting to worry that I won't find the right person. Whether or not I'm too picky. But, people find love well into later ages so I should probably stop freaking out about it.
     
  3. nohalos

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    I go back and forth with this one. It makes me immensely happy to think that I'll have someone with me in the future, but I am deeply scared that I might end up alone.
     
  4. Rawrzilla

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    I don't have a one true love.
     
  5. MisterTinkles

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    If it aint happened by now.........it aint gonna happen.



    I need some cake.
     
  6. CJliving

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    I picked not confident, but the thing is I don't care. If "1 true love" is a real thing, then the realistic chances of meeting "the one" are super slim. But I don't think that really matters. My parents didn't love each other when they got married and I had the most normal, loving, amazing childhood, I didn't even know that they weren't in love.

    So do I think I'll meet "the one", no. Do I think I'll meet someone who will be a great friend and partner (+benefits), hell yes.
     
  7. dano218

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    I am confident that I can find true love again. I have more of a fear which I know is irrational because my boyfriend passed away two months ago I am more afraid of losing it again by suffering another potential loss. But I know i need to get pass that unhealthy fear and will find love again.
     
  8. DragKing692

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    One can only hope, can't they?
     
  9. SonicBoom

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  10. DragKing692

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    Someday my prince(ess) will come....
     
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    I'm 26, live in a small city with a very small gay population, I'm not fully out and not that good looking. I feel like the odds are completely against me. I am signed up for a couple dating sites/apps so I have some hope.
     
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    True love? Dafuq...I just want a boyfriend...
     
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    From what I saw, people are not interested in trans people. I don't believe in my ability to find someone.
     
  14. RainbowVomiter

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    aww, results are sad. but i'm the same. it's gonna be hard to find folks who want the non-typical kind of relationship that i do, especially since i'm not a social person.
     
  15. kageshiro

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    Since I live in the now and don't worry much about the future, I'm not really worried about it ^_^
     
  16. Skaros

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    I've never been intimate with anyone, and I really don't know when or where I would get an opportunity. High school seems like such a messy place to fall in love, because college would get in the way of relationships. I would like for the opportunity to come to me, but knowing that it's much more challenging for gays to find other gays, I'd say I need to do some searching if I want any luck.
     
  17. iamgroot

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    .oooo1%

    I'm too paranoid for dating sites. [scared of axe murders]
    and I spaz and run when good-looking men talk/look at me.
     
  18. MyLittleWorld

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    I don't believe in one true love.
     
  19. Gandee

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    I think someone will eventually come, doesn't really matter.
     
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    voted 'very' - looks like i am the minority though...