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Does size matter to you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MotelGuy, Apr 15, 2015.

  1. James

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    No, not at all. I actually prefer small or average sized guys.
     
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    I don't have any experience, But I really don't care about size.
     
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    I don't really have any experience, but I don't think that size would matter to me. It sounds so cliche, but personality and emotional connection means a lot more to me than size.
     
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    Yeah I am a size queen when it comes to men's heart. The bigger it is, the more kind and generous they are I am more attracted to them.

    Their peepee can be smaller than their thumb.. or a baby's thumb for all I care.

    Sex is low concern, love is nearly extinct.
     
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    If size matters to them, then they don't matter to me. Because that tells me they are a shallow and plastic person, of which I have no use for.

    That also tells me they have no aptitude for liking someone for the person they are, rather than their looks and sizes of parts.
     
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    Size is ultimately not important. If the guy was lovely, his dick wouldn't matter no matter how big or small it is. If we got on really well then of course I wouldn't turn someone away based on their size.

    But I will say this, having mainly bottomed (I'm vers but seem to unintentionally attract tops who are 7,8 and 9 inches) and lost my virginity to a 9 inch one, bottoming for big dicks does get old. They look nice, that is true. But I also really like the look of small to average sized penis. The few encounters I have had with guys in the average category, there is more room for spontaneity, and I also find them more pleasurable. It's nice to bottom when there is no pain involved. Big dicks require so much work, preparation, and I do find that I can't be arsed most of the time (no pun intended). Little to average are cute, and I like cute... Having said all that though, if I met a guy who was amazing, and he had a massive cock, I wouldn't turn him away based on his penis.
     
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    Yes imnotreallysure, we understand - you are a dick, and that's lovely. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I feel that people exaggerate how much preparation is involved for anal sex. It's never spontaneous, whether they are well-endowed or not, but for me, it's simply a case of going to the bathroom, having a quick wash, and that's it. You're done in 5 minutes. I might do an enema, but usually it is not necessary. If your diet is good, there's really no need.

    Only problem with bigger dicks is that they take a little longer to adjust to, even if you're used to it, but once you're comfortable, it's plain sailing. Well, this is just from my point of view. Others will be different. And a lot of people presume that when you're not a committed relationship, you only have sex once a week, or something, but that isn't true. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

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    Honestly don't care. Does it get hard and shoot is all I care about. My favorite of all time was the smallest of the guys I've been with. It could fire over and over and was a challenge to put to sleep
     
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    As long as it's not freakishly small. But even then i could overlook it. No pun intended. In all seriousness though, better be circumcised... I dont need that other nonsense in my life.
     
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    I also noted this: Bigger ones seem to take a lot longer to get hard, and don't shoot as much, or as far.

    We need to do some studies to prove this!

    Though to me, it doesn't matter; there's a ton of interestingly shaped toys out there, and if my rear has the urge, my mate can use those on me, while I take care of, er, other parts...
     
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    For me it doesn't really matter. If he's fun to be around and a good person and you get along very well, his size would be the last thing I'd think about. I'm not gonna turn down someone just because his penis isnt big
     
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    It doesn't really matter to me.
     
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    Doesn't matter that much to me either.
     
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    No. Doesn't matter to me.
     
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    Not at all.

    I really don't care about that. I'm more interested in him as a person than him as body part. I would hope he is the same with me.
     
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    It doesn't for me. I don't pay much attention to cut or uncut either. Each has it's advantages. If I'm dating someone small or average, we can always try fisting when I'm in the mood for something larger.
     
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    Yes, size matters to me. Too small and I feel frustrated. Too big, and I'll cry. Oh yes! It's happened before.

    I think width is more important than length, too. My idea penis is about 6 inches long and about the same in circumference. Any bigger and my bottom starts to hurt really bad. I've had guys either through simply being too large to being too rough or a combination thereof, leave my bottom so battered and sore, that I actually found it difficult to sit down for a day or two. :tears:

    I've taken a lot bigger, but I didn't enjoy it. I just literally bit down on a mouthful of pillow, closed my eyes so intensely that tears would squeeze out and silently pray for him to hurry up and finish.
     
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    Not too big IMO because i'm a really petite girl so anything really large would probably break me. Kinda like what Latrell Spencer said in the movie White Chicks xD
     
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    Not at all. It's just a decoration for what really matters.