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Preferred Pronouns?

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  1. ApexxShadow

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    Hi! What is everyones preferred pronouns? I wanna get to know the community a little better and use the correct pronouns. Mine are they/them/they're or he/him. What about you guys?
     
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    "He" works fine with me I guess.
     
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    I'm kind of questioning this myself. I like the idea of calling myself they/them, but I also don't oppose seeing myself as a girl (which is why I think I could be a demigirl). Like, I have a very feminine face, but if I wore a bandeau or sports bra or something that hid the little bit of a chest I do have, I could look like I have either a guy's or girl's body. And when I think about it, that appeals to me a lot. I like they/them, but I'll accept feminine pronouns as well. :slight_smile:
     
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    Ze/hir/hirs is mine! :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't have a real solid liking atm, but I do think that over time I will be more and more interested in 'they/them'.

    As far as the newer gender-neutral pronouns, they're something I'll just be keeping an eye on them as I get more familiar...
     
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    She/Her or They/Them

    I've gone back and forth between deciding if I was agender or just non-gender conforming cis, so those two for now.
     
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    I would prefer he.

    Just a side note... during its first meeting, the LGBT group at my university asked everyone to introduce themselves. They were also asked for their preferred pronoun. We had one trans male and one gender fluid student, both of whom preferred the pronoun he. So yeah I thought that it was nice that we were asked this so that everyone's gender was acknowledged and respected :slight_smile:
     
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  9. waitwhat

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    The Pride Alliance at my university did this as well.

    And, I prefer female pronouns.
     
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    He, him, his :slight_smile:
     
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    They/Them usually, but I will respond to any. ^.^
     
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    He, his, him...I was born a Male, and I'd like to be reffered to as one, thank you very much...
     
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    Male pronouns. =)
     
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    Male pronouns.

    "Sir" is also fine :lol:.
     
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    He/him or she/her
     
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    Male pronouns (he/him)
     
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    Generally she/her though I wouldn't mind other pronouns, as long as they are not "it". On computer games in which people are generally assumed to be male, I am often called "he" and I like it. It makes me feel like the guys see me as more of an equal than some weak, soft girl.
     
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    Anything other than she/her is fine by me. He/him would be best but I don't object to they/them or anything else.
     
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    She and her. I identify as female.
     
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    He / him.
     
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