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Straight hating gays?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by NingyoBroken, Apr 6, 2015.

  1. xylaz

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    I don't have hate for straight people; not their behavior and most definitely not their sexuality. We're not doing this the right way if we don't have input from the other side because in spite of all our generalities, the best person would be the one to accept these differences and find solutions.
    Hate is superfluous and too temporary. It is sadly the worst way to spend one's passion and energy. It just seeks to breed animosity. It really is a tragic waste of time.
    Straight people may go off on many things they hate about us. Personally that is humbling to me because it means we all have issues and no one is wiser or better than the other.
    I've had many bad experiences with both straights and queers. That doesn't mean it applies to all. I'm not one to hold grudges, but I can see why they are so hated.
    Patriarchy, the bigotry and shamming, oppression and all else. We're all people here, so we cannot exclude ourselves from the problem. Unless you think you're special in an arrogant sort of way, group mentalities will never help when there's only ignorance. Arrogant people are the people I seem to "hate" slightly more than the rest, and they can be ANY orientation,race, etc.
     
  2. Quiet Raven

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    I don't understand.

    First: You are generalizing. Not all straight guys are like that.

    And you don't believe in an alliance? How do you expect LGBT to be more accepted in society if we refused to accept everyone else?
     
  3. NingyoBroken

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    ^this
     
  4. QueerTransEnby

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    It's quite disturbing to me that anyone who is LGBT would reject the concept of allies. They are the ones who turn the tide. We only make up 4-10% of the population.
     
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    Somehow I think straight men will survive while getting criticism.