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How often are you attracted to people?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by sporn, Apr 3, 2015.

  1. Browncoat

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    In an "eye candy" way, all the time. Seriously, constantly.


    In a "I really wish I could sum up the courage to ask that person out" way, hmm...I always have at least one of those at a time, it seems. So maybe like one person a year or every 6 months or something, but I'm fixated on them in a daily sense as well.
     
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    Not very often, but that might because I can't see very well. Good pick up line "I fancy your blur." I'd say about once every week or two give or take a week or two. Most of the time I'm not looking around at people, I usually look at the ground.

    Otherwise I rarely talk to people, so it's not like I'm gonna be attracted to their personality.
     
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    I've only been attracted to four girls in real life. This might sound weird but I don't really check people out. I do have lots of celebrity/fictional character crushes though:slight_smile:
     
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    I like the look of a lot of people daily, but in the same way I would enjoy good art (people are works of art, after all :slight_smile: ).

    I have a sex fantasy every day. But I only get horny toward people that are physically/visually present once in a while.

    I can have a sort of art-enjoying+sexual-opportunistic attraction where it's like a precursor to possible horny-ness? I dunno how to explain it.

    When I had a girlfriend, I fantasized about her a lot. It disrupted my daily thoughts.
     
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    i am guilty of constantly checking girls out a lot but in terms of deep attractions; i have had that about three times all together
     
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    Every day I can find some guy I find attractive, but crush wise I haven't had one in over 3 years.
     
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    I've seen way to many hot guys to count
     
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    Lots of attractive people here
     
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    It would depend on what you define as attraction. I've only have 1 person who I would say I've had a "crush" on, meaning he is the only one I can think about and I want him. (emotional attraction)

    I pretty much look at every male and my first thought would be whether or not he's decent looking. I guess there's a fair amount of people I know who I am sexually attracted to, but just not emotionally attracted to.
     
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    Pretty much every day I spot someone who I feel at least some semblance of attraction towards.
     
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    In all of my XIII years of existence, I have had ons crush. That was 4-5 years ago.
     
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    Define "attraction" i like a lot of people and i am intrigued or fascinated by some.However i need some time and getting to know each other to be really attracted to someone in the classical way.There are some exceptions but not often.
     
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    Very, very rarely. There are times I see a girl who makes me take a second or third look, but I've only been seriously interested in three people in my whole life.
     
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    I'm kind of like this. I mean sure, I see guys I think are cute fairly often, but there are only a few people I've ever been seriously interested in. Those crushes tend to last a long, long time.
     
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    I check guys out all the time but I'm rarely attracted to them. For me to be attracted to someone I have to be drawn in by their looks and personality.
     
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    All the damn time :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I don't actually crush on people frequently, but see somebody who's visually appealing? Many times whenever I go out in public. It is a blessing and a curse.
     
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    What they said. haha
     
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    I'm 16.

    They're all pretty.