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Would you choose to be straight if you could?

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  1. guitar

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    This is a really hard question to answer. On the one hand, I love guys & am very happy with my relationship. On the other, it would have saved me a lot of grief not having to come out, not to mention a lot of the other social pressures of being gay.
     
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    Nah... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: But I wish I could turn straight people (men :icon_wink) gay. :grin:

    *kidding*
     
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    I'd still go all in for the ladies :wink:
     
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    no, I am happy being bisexual
     
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    I love how I am. I'm glad I went through accepting it because it's made me much more open minded. It's frustrating when people refuse to see the world from my perspective, so I've come to value empathy more than I would have if I was straight. I think it also helped my straight friends face something new.
     
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    I would probably answer no. I can't pinpoint the exact reason. The thought of me straight makes me uneasy and just doesn't seem right. I feel like this is who I am, who I was, and who I will be.
    Plus I can't give up cute boys... :lol:
     
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    Yes a few years ago but now, no. Im happy with being gay. I mean come on, boobies and Vaginas......gross :slight_smile:.
     
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    well i dont know ill just let the wind take me where i need to go
     
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    You should always be proud of who you are!
    Embrace yourself and love yourself for who you are!!

    If anyone needs to talk i am always here :grin::thumbsup:
     
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    Nah! Too proud to be pansexual.
     
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    No way. Being bisexual is awesome.

    On the other hand, if I could choose to be cis, I would in a heartbeat. Dysphoria is awful, and I'd love to just be happy with my body all the time.
     
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    I'm happy with being gay, but life would be a hell of a lot easier if I were straight. So for that reason, I think I would say yes.
     
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    Yes, I'd choose to be straight. I hate the fact that I'm not, and I always will.
     
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    I wouldn't change - this is who I am. Being a homoromantic graysexual has its benefits! (Such as being able to focus on everything but sex). I don't really feel oppressed either as all my friends accept me for who I am. The only barrier now is my grandmother but she's psycho.

    It would be interesting to experience being a man for a day or so but I'm happy being a woman :slight_smile:
     
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    No, I would be a completely different person if I wasn't gay. It wouldn't even be me.
     
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    Yup, I'd probably change myself if I could.
     
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    I probably would have said yes a few months ago. But now, I like my boyfriend too much to be straight.
     
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    God no! I love myself and being gay because it is a huge, important part of me and I would be a fractured husk of my true happy gay self that I love more than anything I could possibly gain from being straight.
     
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    I'm happy my sexuality allows me to love anyone, I don't feel constricted to what society believes you can only love one type of person and it has to be "the norm"
    With gender, no I would not like to be okay wit my gender, yes I hate being trans, but I do not want to be a girl. I would like to be a cisgender boy, not a cisgender girl.