Straight/ bi/ lesbian or just a fear of being a lesbian?

I do not know but from what you described your straight.
Just because you may look at another female for a wide range of reasons does not make you gay, however if you look at one the way I do oh la la or something like that it would be different.

 

You might have a look at this:
Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender?

There is sexual and romantic attraction... and some people say they need an emotional connection first...

I'd say take your time... you might think about it, and simply getting open to the idea..
you might have a look here:
http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-...fo-you-got-ec-helped-you-accept-yourself.html

Sex should not be painful if there is enough foreplay, and if there is no medical condition involved...
well it might be possible some lube is necessary...

concerning porn, you might think about stopping for a while...

for more hints, with both sexes, you might have a look at this thread:
http://emptyclosets.com/forum/anony...s-who-slept-guys-how-do-you-get-orgasm-4.html


You might think about a counselor...
and you might call here:
SupportLine - Problems: Sexuality: Advice, support and information
->Agencies which provide information and support
People there listen, support and give advice.


(*hug*)

 

Well principally its up to you to figure out...

you could think a bit about it, and just try to meet some people, not overthinking...

you seem to be sexually and romantically attracted to men...

and sexually to women...

this would make you bi... there is something like the kinsey scale, and you can look up tests for romantic attraction... don't take them too serious, just as something to think about...

you could try to be a bit more open, and get used to the thought you might like women as well...

just take the time you need, it has taken others some time as well...

if you don't have too much phobia you could try some lgbt clubs... or have a look at a lgbt center, with events and activities... just to have a look at the atmosphere, and at people...
and there might be counseling there...

I'd say just take your time, and make this step by step...you could have a look at a few lgbt movies and see how it makes you feel...
http://emptyclosets.com/forum/entertainment-media/142817-lets-discuss-lesbian-movies.html

(*hug*)

 

You know your straight that is all that matters. What others think of you shouldn't. If someone looks good it's like magnets for our eyes doesn't mean you are bi or lesbian for looking. Wanting to touch, etc with a women would make you not straight. We have have best friend whom we love dearly yet the idea of kissing them eww. Even if lets say you are more than attracted to a female what's so bad about it? Fear of what others think? Grossed out about the thought. If you are grossed out then why keep thinking and doubting if you are R not? If u dear something yet constantly think about it maybe deep down there is somethin more, maybe others opinion if you made you doubt your sexuality. Addiction to porn, the only time I looked at porn when I was single. With a partner who you can communicate, sexual needs can be satisfied no need for porn. : )

 

You sound straight to me