Top or Bottom REVISED

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by maselalala, Feb 17, 2015.

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Are you top, bottom, versatile, or a mix of anything?

  1. Exclusively Top.

    2 vote(s)
    2.2%
  2. Top with a slight interest in bottom.

    10 vote(s)
    11.1%
  3. Versatile with a slight preference for top.

    12 vote(s)
    13.3%
  4. Versatile with no preference either way.

    11 vote(s)
    12.2%
  5. Versatile with a slight preference for bottom.

    10 vote(s)
    11.1%
  6. Bottom with a slight interest in top.

    18 vote(s)
    20.0%
  7. Exclusively Bottom.

    6 vote(s)
    6.7%
  8. I don't know.

    12 vote(s)
    13.3%
  9. I don't participate in anal sex.

    7 vote(s)
    7.8%
  10. I am repulsed by sex.

    2 vote(s)
    2.2%
  1. White Knight

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    I prefer to sleep on wall side of the bed if possible... I have more accurate preference on that.
     
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    I could go either way since I like both
     
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    The difference between being pansexual and bisexual is the difference between what I am and 'versatile'. I can't even comprehend the idea of feeling like one particular sexual role or act was inherent to me. Give me a good-looking lad and we'll do all the things. :slight_smile:
     
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    The difference between being pansexual and bisexual is the difference between what I am and 'versatile'. I can't even comprehend the idea of feeling like one particular sexual role or act was inherent to me. Give me a good-looking lad and we'll do all the things. :slight_smile:
     
  5. Rusty

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    Exclusive bottom, until proven otherwise, I just love the feeling of being full.
     
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    I think that I'd be an exclusive top (but I'm saying all this never having had any sexual relations, let alone an relationship...haha). I have found over years of experimentation with myself that even the thought of someone penetrating me (either as a female or a male) is repulsive, physically sickening, and makes my skin crawl. I know this is just my opinion, but I'm curious to see if anyone else agrees...
     
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    "Versatile with a slight preference for bottom."

    Bottoming is what I go towards when I have a new partner. Then I top more when I'm more comfortable.
     
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    It's been about eight months since I was last able to participate in that act. I used to be a bottom, but I had to have surgery in that area. Since then, I've never really felt fully healed, so I've had to forego it. I've tried topping a few times, but I didn't enjoy it or find it very pleasurable physically. Not being able to maintain an erection was a big difficulty. I'm not sure sometimes if I'll ever really be able to bottom much anymore. So, I chose the option indicating that I don't really do anal sex.
     
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    I'm a virgin, and don't like the idea of anal.
     
  10. Fallingdown7

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    Exclusive top only
     
  11. pinkpanther

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    You forgot to add the option "I'm a nun for life." I haven't had any for a very long time.
     
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    Top with a slight Interest in bottom.

    Is what I'd imagine, I'm still a virgin though so who knows what I'll like.
     
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    I've tried sex as a bottom twice, and it was OK but I kinda felt neutral about it. Being a top....... I've never tried it, but I think I'd like to, so that I know how it felt for the 2 tops who did me.
     
  14. AngelWings17

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    Exclusively bottom. I've gotten on top twice, but I don't really like it. I am shy and submissive. I try to hide my face with my hair when I do get on top. I don't mind other positions, so long as I'm not dominating. :icon_redf

    I'm not too fond of anal as much as when I tried it with my boyfriend the first time. I prefer regular.
     
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    There is nothing like top. Nothing.
     
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    I havent have sex with anyone yet, but I think I am bottom unless my partner wants me to be top. I think my position vary depending on my partner
     
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    I'm a virgin, but I think I would enjoy bottom the most. I used to think I would never try top ever, but I figure I'll try it once or twice maybe and see if I like it.
     
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    I've not bottomed, before...I've always topped, but as of late I've come to think it might not be such a bad idea...more a question of trust than anything else.
     
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    I'd usually say versatile bottom but I've been topping more than bottoming recently. I don't care either way as long as we both have fun.
     
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    My guy and me are QB's, so I've had to compromise and play WR some.

    It's OK, but I prefer playing QB over WR.