Hey, I am aroused by gay porn a lot. I dont think I'm gay because I've never had a crush on a guy or had a desire to have sex with one, although I have with women. I get aroused by gay porn but I think it's something psychological about it, maybe because its taboo or maybe because they seem into it more, or maybe because I'm a virgin and can understand their pleasure more, but I dont get aroused one bit from seeing pictures of naked men. I can scroll through pages of naked men all day any not be aroused. Although if I scroll through pages of naked women, I get turned on... And when I'm aroused by women it feels right, but I don't feel myself when I watch gay porn. I also get turned on by lesbian and straight porn as well, but gay porn seems to be the biggest turn on. So does anyone have any idea whats going on? Thanks
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Porn =/= Sexuality Gay male porn is very common in the lesbian community more so than actual lesbian porn is, and many straight women and gay men also watch lesbian porn. The same can apply to straight guys enjoying gay porn.
Thanks for the replies, If i was gay, wouldnt I get an erection from seeing naked guys? Both flaccid and erect pictures don't give me a hardon
In case you don't know, sexuality can be fluid. It can change over time. Whichever words you want to use are fine, and you don't have to keep using the same ones all the time.
I know how its like. My attractions vary throughout the day, mostly guys but I go to the other side sometimes. Its confusing and scary but let it roll.
I'm a heavy porn addict, exposed for 7 whole years. Only now have I realized that porn doesn't reflect reality. It's one dimensional, meaning sex only. Doesn't talk about the relationship and whatnot. Speaking of relationships, sex will be the 5% of the relationship. You'll be doing a lot more together with your partner, so if sex is all you can imagine you need to address that issue first. So now you've explored your sexual arousal, have you ever had feelings for guys? You said no. Another question would be dating a guy. Porn can have many factors in play, like transference for example; seeing yourself as the man that poses a buff body with a masculine look. Basically the guys that get all the ladies. Porn sometimes aligns with a persons sexual orientation, sometimes it doesn't. I too think that the act of men having sex with each other is taboo. In reality, I sometimes compare myself to older men who seem better off than I am. They have a well developed personality and body, something that I desire as a dominant male. I'm a scrawny little asian haha. Careful with porn, it can change your tastes in reality but thankfully not permanently. Watching porn does not change your orientation; it can cause porn induced ED though.
Thanks for the opinions guys, I'm gonna try and stop thinking about it so much. If i was gay, I feel like I wouldv'e had a crush on a guy by now, i'm 18, and I think I would get erections from pictures of naked guys, but i don't, so that makes me think I'm straight too. It's so confusing but I think it's all psychological. I even used to have a girlfriend and would get aroused every time I even touched her or made out with her, but then this gay porn thing happens and just confuses me to no end.
Because they are bisexuals? stop with all the conflicting labels, no gay men i know watch lesbian porn at all, they are all freaked out by it, maybe those guys aren't gay, why can't some people just be bi sexual and enjoy the sexuality of all. If i watch straight porn it is because the guy is hot and i treat the woman as a background object or poorly placed pice of furniture. ---------- Post added 24th Jan 2015 at 08:39 PM ---------- Are you attracted to men or a penis that doesn't belong to anyone, plus porn standards are superficial, In porn it's all about good looks and abs but in real life, i can be with a guy I wouldn't find hot in porn, real life sex it's about whether i have a emotional connection to the person, stop confusing yourself with so many thoughts, plus when you masturbate they is a down time where you lose all your sexual attraction for a while, that's why straight guys lose interest in their girls when he orgasms first and the woman is upset because he lost interest in her when she is still in the mood for sex.
Because they're not bisexual and studies have proven that porn has NOTHING to do with sexuality. 80% of all lesbians only watch gay male and heterosexual porn and actively dislike, despise, are turned-off or indifferent to lesbian porn. In fact no lesbian I know likes lesbian porn and actively complains about it, the ones who like it are the minority. I am also this way (gay/straight porn only) and I guarantee you I am 100% kinsey 6 with no exceptions whatsoever. Studies have proven that women are aroused to everything sexual including child porn; are all women pedophiles? Studies have proven that the vast majority of rape victims are turned on and feel pleasure and orgasm from rape, does that mean that all rape is consensual? If you enjoy a gory horror movie with a killer slashing about innocent victims, are you a psychopath with a secret desire to kill your friends and family? Would you enjoy killing someone? Well, porn is the same way. It's not just an attraction to the people involved, It's an attraction to the scenery. Many women can watch porn involving genders they have zero attraction to because they visualize them being someone else. I for example, have 0% attraction to any porn stars and always visualize them being my roleplay characters or real life crushes; I just need the scenery help to help me imagine what they're doing.
Lesbian porn is annoying and is designed for straight guys who like to have threesomes with two girls, the women are straight, lack passion,look like barbie dolls(which straight guys like). So what do you get from watching this porn then. Gay porn in general is more romantic than straight porn and more authentic than lesbian porn, so do you like that?I watch gay porn and because I enjoy seeing men naked because I am attracted to the male body shape and features and the idea of male to male love, I can watch solo male too, passion, kissing( i don't like gay porn without kissing). I can watch bisexual or straight porn that focuses on the guy like femdom or if he is attractive enough and i can pretend the girl isn't there.
Yeah I get what you guys are saying, I just watched a video earlier of a really hot girl having sex with an ugly old fat guy. I was grossed out by the guy in the video, but just focused on the girl and thought it was hot that she was so good looking and submissive, and I got off on it. I think gay porn can turn me on because the guys are overpowering each other and they look like they genuinely want to do it and are also so obedient, just like how the video I watched the girl was genuinely into it. I mean if I look at just pictures of nude men without any porn or sex going on, plain men kind of gross me out, especially the ones with hair on their body, hairy asses, hairy legs, or just a picture of a guy with his ass showing is nasty. The only way it's not so gross but still not a turn on is if they are hairless and completely ripped, then I usually compare myself to them and envy their body, maybe out of insecurity. But past the porn and looking into reality like you said, I could never see myself with a guy in real life, just doesn't feel right for me and I would never be able to have a crush on a guy and hold hands with one and kiss one, and live with one. Growing up it was always about crushes on girls, one after the other, and always having dreams about being with one. That's all I want out of life, and I hope it happens for me.
Yes, I prefer the romance and scenery but I'm not attracted to the actors. It's just easier to get off to the scenery and pretend the guys are actually girls : P
