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What Do You Lack?

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  1. The Virgo

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    Money
    A car
    A place to live thats under my name
    An ID
    Wine!
    And a man ._.
     
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    Patience. I get irritated quickly, especially when someone becomes repetitive. Like if someone asks me to do something over and over again within a 5-10 minute time frame, I get irritated.

    Friends. Every time I gain friends, I tend to lose them within weeks or months. It always ends with something that they did wrong and are trying to blame it on me. Literally. They'll either fail to be honest with me and freak out when they've "had enough" or they'l do something that's unforgivable and will often think that I'd forgive them.

    Motivation. I don't really do much other than paint, play games and occasionally shop. Mind you, there's not a lot to do around here but I feel like everyone I know is doing so much more than I am. I also hate cleaning (but I do it anyway)


    Money, definitely. I always run out of money the first or second week after I get it. It gets so bad that I've had to put a small fee in place for people who cancel paintings because it takes up a ton of my time and that time is wasted on a painting that will A) Be unfinished and B) be thrown away.
     
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  3. Mero

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    I lack confidence.
    I look in the mirror and just feel depressed.
    What am I worth? Who is going to miss me when I'm gone? Why can't I seem to do anything right...
    I've been "trying" to obtain it but really I haven't progressed an inch.
    Confidence supposedly starts when I stop wanting to run away the moment I enter a room filled with others, but why is that so hard.
    Sigh, I really need to stop feeling so insecure.
     
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    a boyfriend. :/ Besides that, a full time job as I have switched careers, which also means I lack independence as I moved back with my parents and their dysfunctional marriage situation. I really want to avoid having to get a "regular" job that would cut into my art-making time. Life was so idyllic when I was a graduate researcher working full time and getting a stipend (except for the whole stress of being a research scientist competing for grant funding).

    Looking at other posts, I will add a car (seems all my parents' cars decided to fail simultaneously), friends interested in hanging out.
     
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    I lack limits, which isn't really a bad thing.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Energy.

    No matter how much I sleep, I'm always exhausted. If other parts of my life functioned better, I think I would have more energy. Right now, my energy just keeps being drained. There's basically nothing that actually gives me energy. At the same time, I believe having energy is crucial to actually better these aspects of my life.
     
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    #1: Direction, I do not know where to start or how to begin.
    #2: Money to travel & be active enough to meet that special lady.
    #3: That special someone to begin again :slight_smile:
     
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    I do lack discipline, but I'm not at all bothered by that.

    What I lack is a social group right now! And that is because I can't communicate well enough and, even if I could, I wouldn't be viewed as able to communicate well enough. There's also just not a lot of young people in my area. :/ I need an "in" to a social group but I don't have any where I am now. Which is why I want to move farther south, because I would have easier access to cities with LGBT+ groups, foreigners, events, and my friends. So I can obtain this, and I'm working on it. :slight_smile:
     
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  9. Mischief

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    I lack the ability to be romantic. (I just get so awkward... And I'm an extreme extrovert.)
    A magnificent friend I can talk to every single day and feel comfortable doing so, whether it be online or IRL.
    A job.
    Concentration.
     
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    I lack discipline and calmness.
     
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    Self confidence, normal social skills, motivations to do things in general... I could probably go on forever but those things are my mains issues and fixing them would Fox a whole lot more
     
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    Money and power.

    Not to for reasons of greed or avarice, but for reasons of true justice.
    Real, true justice in the world now, is extremely expensive.

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    "Faster horses, younger women, more money" (Thanks Tom):icon_wink
     
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    I know I desperately lack something for a long time but the bad thing is i dont know what it is
     
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    Motivation/perseverance.
    I've been thouroughly disillusioned with the History major I enrolled in, to the point that I struggle to motivate myself to finish the final year and do so with admirable grades.
    I could get motivated, but it's hard turning the switch after 6+ years of trudging along.
     
    #55 Linthras, Jan 19, 2015
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    Patience, confidence and calmness.
     
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    Confidence, objectivity, direction...
     
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    Adequate sleep. I get occasional waves of insomnia so I'll probably attain it once this period is over....

    Oh that's not what you meant probably. I lack a lot of things but I don't wanna think about that.
     
    #58 Austin, Jan 19, 2015
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    A SO.
    Which is hard to think about when struggling to finish my Major.
     
    #59 Linthras, Jan 19, 2015
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    Intuition

    I over analyze everything.
     
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