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Are u more gay or straight when drunken

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Jaymmm, Jan 2, 2015.

  1. Jaymmm

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    just simple question- does alcohol make you behave or feel more gay or straight?
     
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    I'm not flamboyant to begin with. But I am pretty open. If I'm on a date, I don't mind flirting, public displays of affection, etc. So honestly, when I'm drunk, I'm just a happier, jollier me. I don't change much except I get happier, albeit maybe a bit more cautious.
     
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    it makes me feel more straight, or rather ultra-straight. I usually end up kissing and chasing girls. To date, surprisingly, I've actually never felt attracted to a guy (unless I'm already hugely attracted to that guy in my sober-life) when drunk.

    I dunno why
     
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    It makes me feel more asexual.
     
  5. NingyoBroken

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    If by that you mean, are you flamboyant when drunk

    I had my first (and probably one of my last) experiences with alcohol last night. And I was so flamboyant it was unbelievable.
     
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    For me, it doesn't change anything. I mean, I'm happy when drunk, but don't lean more to one side or the other. Alcohol does make me more likely to engage people or be physical (touching, etc) with people.
     
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    Alcohol does one thing very well: it reduces one's inhibitions, it does not make you gay or straight, it diminishes your resistances to things you might do or say.
     
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    i didnt think alcohol can make somebody gayer or straighter but you can be prone to show this or that part of someoneĀ“s personality

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    its interesting, maybe when drunken you dont take things so seriously
     
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    I can only speak for myself, I've never been around any temptation when drunk.
     
  10. Water lover

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    More straight because I know I am basically mentally incapacitated so it triggers my anxioty and I fake it more. I know I will be more open so I force my self more it's a wierd battle of self control that leads to more drinking lol
     
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    It makes me more gay , I get more friendly with the women folk :lol:
     
  12. Sapphire

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    Depends, sometimes my gayer side comes out when I'm around people who I'm comfortable with. Other times I guess I'm just my version of normal, mostly masculine but with a touch of behavior that isn't typical of straight guys. I'm surprised at how many people don't pick up on it though, maybe because I'm so used to my sexuality that the idea of me being "straight" has become absurd.
     
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    I'm more touchy-feely when I'm drunk, almost exclusively towards women. I don'tget more gay (because I'm pretty hella gay already) but I'm probably more obvious about it.
     
  14. HunGuy

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    It doesn't really change that for me. I don't let myself get out of control, because I don't want to reveal my sexuality accidentally. There was a high school reunion last year, where I got pretty drunk, and almost said to the bartender 'Wow you're sexy' or something like that :grin: , but I stopped myself before doing so.
     
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    I just get really jolly and end up flirting with the guys lol ;P (!)
     
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    I'm straighter, I think because being drunk makes me want to be everyones friend so I try acting like "one of the guys" to whichever guy is around. They still ignore my presence though, homophobic jerks lmao. I may as well just continue hanging out with ladies and forget trying to make guy friends.
     
  17. ccdd

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    When I'm drunk I'm very, very gay :grin:
     
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    Too much alcohol depresses me, so I try to avoid getting drunk. I don't need alcohol to be gay. :grin:
     
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    Because that part of me is suppressed almost all the time, I get WAY more gay when sober. Not stereotypically effeminate so much, but a lot more eager to show my attraction to guys.
     
  20. gazwkd

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    When I was younger it made me more jokey - messing about and playing pranks/drinking games etc. It never made me any different really to what I'm always like - i certainly didn't get the urger to don hotpants and strut my stuff on the dance floor!

    These days I drink only on a rare occasion and fortunately my body seems to have a kill switch for alcohol consumption - it'll reach a certain level and then home time. I'm also a relatively well behaved and responsible drunk :wink:

    I'd probably be a little worried if I became a different person when under the influence - that would tell me I'm hiding part of myself that needs alcohol to release it :dry: