New and Drowning

this is the sign in the top that I thought was an Ad :icon_bigg

 

thanks. for some reason, it doesn't show up on my computer. maybe it's a pop up and it's being blocked? anyway, if it did show up, it would definitely grab my attention!

 

*hug*

I have no personal experience so I can't say much but I do think staying together purely for your children is always the wrong thing, regardless the reason you don't want to be together any more. it is understandably complex though.

:goodluck:

 

Welcome to EC!

I'm in a little bit of a different situation, but just wanted to say, "Hi." You aren't alone - many of us on the later in life section have kids/marriages/other responsibilities. Lots of people to get advice from!

 

hi! it is not a pop-up. the yellow sign has an "x" on the corner, so maybe you accidently clicked on it without realising and closed it

 

My heart goes out to you.
I was in the same situation (without the non accepting family) until a few weeks ago, when I hit a crisis, which you know when you do, and how I was feeling had to come out.
I have 3 adult children and we would have been married 30 years next year he was my best friend but nothing more.
I have been where you are so if I can help just ask...

 

Happyhamster, would like to chat. I have posted a message on your wall.

 

Hi Stella99
I will get back to you my post count is not high enough to allow me to use the wall.

 

You might make a few postings in threads you think you can help...
except from post countings are games and fun...

 

Have done that including an introductory one that should be enough now.

 

Strange, info section says all members can post and receive wall messag:

 

Yes... but you need 10 postings in threads before you can post on others walls...
(*hug*)