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Why do top gays like butts?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Fantie, Dec 22, 2014.

  1. Fantie

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    I just watched some ... you know what. And honesty I don't get it how top gay are into butts? Like what's attractive about butts?
     
  2. Ruthven

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    people just like whatever they like y'know? it's subjective

    you apparently aren't into asses, but others are--it is what it is
     
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    not sure it can even be limited to tops........
     
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    im not a "top" more bottom/switch, but there's something about a man in tight fitting jeans with a firm ass. oh heck just forget the jeans LOL
     
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    I always thought they just like putting their penis in some type of hole .:confused:
    The mouth the ass seems like pretty good options .
     
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    LOL no comment
     
  7. Wildside

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    well, if that were true I guess they would like vaginas too. But, of course, they don't. Now, from my perspective as a total bottom, even though I don't real like to top, I do like butts, especially hairy butts, to look at, touch, caress, clutch onto, and all that. I can only say as a bottom that whatever the motivation may be, I am very grateful that there are tops who like butts, and know what to do with them.
     
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    :thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:
     
  9. Mischief

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    Why question it? All butts are good. Why wouldn't you like them?

    They are a good part of life. Embrace the butt.
     
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    People like what they like.

    If that's not your thing, that's also fine.
     
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    I'm not that much into bums, and I'm quite the top.
    I mean certainly, I enjoy a good bum, but they just don't fascinate me very much.

    Cocks and tits. Those fascinate me.
    Oooooooh yeah.
     
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    If that part of us were like a computer, it'd be something like: brain > i > identity > sexuality > sexual persona > orientation > role > parts of the body that arouse me > fantasies.....

    I think the role starts with our erogenous zones. If you get more pleasure from the butt, you'll want to bottom; some bottoms are even soft while getting fucked and they get pleasure from the rectum. Now, I think this also has to do with BDSM- dominance and submission. I have a gay friend who is total top, he doesn't like to rim butts, but he likes to inflict pain while he dominates a butt. For him, it's more about dominating another man. I love pussies and I could explain why ;D
     
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    The same reason straight dudes are obsessed with boobs. It's little more than a squishy deposit of fat and tissue, but it's sexualized even though there's nothing I herently sexual in it's nature. I'm not sure why people like them, but I do. They're just all round ad cute and squishy XD
     
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    Oh man, this post makes me smile. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    this comment means a lot I guess :grin:

    ---------- Post added 23rd Dec 2014 at 05:19 PM ----------

    The real questions behind this thread is : are you a top or bottom?:grin:
     
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    I don't know. Why do I like salmon?
     
  17. Wildside

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    gee, I like the ones that are firm, that I can grab on to
     
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    No I wasn't including vaginas on this one I'm just thinking butts , I'll explain what I mean , so it can make sense what i'm saying is a penis like a being in a hole that can squeeze it and all that stuff and for a gay man it's not gonna be a vagina but an anus that's why top gays like butts . Now I'm lesbian and I'm speaking for myself now I like the feeling of something in my vagina and feeling of it being stretched , so I like to put things in it . but a Penis is a no go for me(not a attracted to it ) I'm a fingers or dildo type of girl .
    Hope this makes sense.
     
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  19. Wildside

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    OK. what are your thoughts about male bottoms?
     
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    I think male bottoms probably feel the same way I do and like being stretched but with the anus .