Love at first sight?

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  1. Kaiser

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    Immediately, probably not. That's more likely lust or interest talking.

    However, I do think you can fall for somebody, in a deep and meaningful way, faster than somebody else. You'll 'click', or just know, fairly quickly too, if this person will work out.

    Of course, looking at many of the people on this forum, I'd say, it might be possible with them. There's too many good-looking and wonderful souled individuals here!
     
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    It was love at first sight..
    You have been attracted to the person when you first met and you cant help yourself but to see her/him again..
    Gradually, you want to know more about him/her and spending more time together you built a connection..
    You get used to daily phone conversation, walk her/him home, having dinner together, all the fun stuff of dating until the both of you could say "I love you" and its official.
    You want to spend the rest of your life with that person.
     
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    Thanks for your replies guys :slight_smile:
     
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    It doesn't make sense to me. I believe in extreme attraction at first sight lol
     
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    Thanks for your reply Randomcloud :slight_smile:
     
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    ^This :eusa_clap
     
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    No, but I belive you can have great chemistry with someone at first sight.
     
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    Thanks for your replies guys :slight_smile:
     
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    Haha, no.

    I don't believe in fairytales. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Yes, I do believe in first sight, however, more often than not it's lust at first sight.
     
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    Yes, I saw a girl who - in my eyes - is the most beautiful girl and we dated for about a week or so then she dumped me then messed with my emotions, stole my heart and to this day she still has it. :frowning2:
     
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    Yes, I do. The only way I fall is quickly & strongly. With my dh, it was love at first sound. We found each other on a dating chat line. Our first conversation, we spoke for eight hours. We both fell that night. We met three days later & have been together ever since. 18 years. We're best friends. We have so much in common (views, beliefs, interests), I joke we're practically twins. Even what we disagree upon, it's ok. It hasn't always been easy, what with health issues, etc, but, our strong bond has seen us through.

    Everybody has a different style of falling in love. I'd like to experience having someone as a friend first & it turns into love. I do have friends I love, just not romantically. I've had crushes on some. It hasn't become stronger than that. Maybe I'll always fall immediately. It hasn't changed in 46 years.
     
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    Well if I were to believe it, I would be falling in love with every guy I've talked to! I don't really have a type.
    I don't believe in it. It's just lust disguised as love because you can't tell anything from sight alone. That's not love. Sorry.