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Ugghhhh!

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by RayXxx, Dec 16, 2014.

  1. RayXxx

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    You don't know how many times I got called female pronouns today. My work place is busier than usual since the holiday's. I've been called almost every female pronoun: lady, girl, daughter, and of course the usual she/her. I feel like jumping off a cliff. It kills me that no one knows how much it pains me inside, and I just want to tell them, but some of these people hardly see, or even know.
     
  2. jaska

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    ugh that sucks dude. There's always tomorrow though. Hang in there(*hug*)
     
  3. Chriswe

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    Oh, I'm sorry man! But i bet tomorrow will be a better day though. ^^
     
  4. Acm

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    I'm sorry that sucks :frowning2:
     
  5. Theboythat

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    Sorry bro. I know how it feels.
     
  6. Oddish

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    We all know that feel one way or another at some point in our lives. Hang in there. (*hug*)
     
  7. BradThePug

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    I work in retail, and it was brutal before I started passing. I hope that things get better for you after the busy holiday season :slight_smile:
     
  8. RayXxx

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    Thanks guys, yea it generally varies from day to day. Some days it's not so bad and others it's well, bad.
     
  9. NingyoBroken

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    I hate that. And it's usually my mom who outs me. At least she avoids calling me daughter etc.

    But still calls me she...
     
  10. PlantSoul

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    My grandmother tends to do something similar. If we are out together and she/we are talking to someone new, even if the person doesn't ask, she has the knack of telling them that I'm her granddaughter. I hate that so much. :tantrum::bang: