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Do you consider yourself nice or mean?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Burnedcloset, Dec 12, 2014.

  1. One Man Army

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    A natural villain -.-

    I see I have met my nemesis.


    (My one weakness is not Kryptonite...that's just a vicious rumour. Cough)
     
  2. TigerInATophat

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    Most people think I'm really nice until they see me in a bad mood or test my patience, I can be very vindictive and hit a nerve if I don't watch myself. My mother phrases it in astrology terms 'a typical scorpio, you can be really lovely but you've got a nasty sting in your tail'. On the one hand, being perceived as nice is a sign I'm doing a good job in my efforts to be kind. Trouble is when people perceive you as nice they are more likely to take advantage and push further than they would with someone else, which past a certain point is going to bring out my unpleasant side.
     
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    I am way to nice. Literally I have ruined my own life on multiple occasions to make sure no one goes without a friend and the only place I can't talk about it is right now cause I'm afraid to hurt people's feelings. I put up with this girl at my middle school for three years who would constantly physically hurt me and I would contemplate suicide every and have bruises all over me, and I couldn't break of the friendship because she was depressed already and she would have no friends if I wasn't her friend. At lunch I would have to find excuses to hang out with my best friends because she would get really jealous and hit me with a dictionary. I would make my friends leave school with me right after it got out so we could escape and hang out. This literally happens all the time (but this was probably the worst) and if I try to talk to a counselor they always are on their side.
     
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    I think I'm mostly nice, but I can be somewhat bitchy at times...
     
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    I'm nice most of the time but I can be mean sometimes .
     
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    Try to be nice and polite in real life, though I have a nasty vindictive streak if you push me
     
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    I've been told I'm really friendly and welcoming, so I guess nice. I'm not interested in being friends with the kind of person who acts like a dick "until you get to know them" - if someone treats me like shit, I'm not going to waste my time waiting for them to decide I'm worth treating like a human being.
     
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    I am nice to those who don't deserve my unpleasantness.
     
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    People tell me I'm too nice. When people test my patience I don't really get angry or hate them. It's kinda like... Okay, whatever.
     
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    I try to be nice and I hope I succeed.
     
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    I think I'm nice.... probably tooooo nice! :lol:
     
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    None. In my normal state I am so self indulged I barely notice others to be mean or nice. This is why I think myself as a mirror.

    If I believe you are a good person I will be nice and most understanding guy to you and give my everything to make you/see you happy. That doesn't realted to how an indivudal acts towards me, mear or nice. I take my time to observe people and decide.
     
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    Neither.
     
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    I think I'm usually nice, to the point where people end up walking all over me so I kinda wish I could be more mean :/
     
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    Nice.

    If you think of yourself as being mean. Then you are a massive arsehole, as you know yourself to be a dick. Yet care so little about the people around you that you will do nothing change you arsehole behavior.
     
  17. anniebunnie

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    I try to be nice to everyone :slight_smile:
     
  18. MissRanger

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    I would consider myself a nice person even to the jerk faces that are rude to me. Although I am a very sarcastic person and I speak with a very monotonous voice. Some people take it as being serious so sometimes I'm perceived as rude to others.
     
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    In between. I'm nice to the people who are nice to me but if you're not nice, know that I won't try and be the better person.
     
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    Not the nicest guy in the room, but slightly more of a nice guy than a mean guy. Proportion would be around 60/40. Really depends on my emotional state ... We are all humans, at times we are just angry, rude, impatient and so on. Personally I don't like to lie to people, so if I'm angry, most likely I'd show it to let them know. May be except for times when it is strictly mandatory to stay calm and pretend to be nice while burning a hell fire inside, but usually those situations are really rare, so... :3